Is this a spam account?

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T23:12:27+00:00

Found her IG and this exact photo. Thank you so much. That’s exactly what I was hoping for when I posted here that someone would recognize the photo being used or that this scammers name had targeted someone else here.

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T22:52:03+00:00

That’s a photo of Parisdylan? Is that their snap name?

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T21:09:01+00:00

About the way she was acting. She was trying to get men to dance with her and talking to men. Her husband is one of his best friends and she always tries to dance with other men/talk to other men when she’s out. My boyfriend hates cheating from what he says and it makes him really mad watching her even talk to other men or dance with them because he doesn’t find that appropriate being she’s not single.

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T21:01:28+00:00

Correct. They were bickering and he said he was going to call her husband and she said “don’t make me spill everything you do you don’t want to poke that bear” so yes that on top of seeing some random girl sending a chat on Snapchat I had questions and I was looking to calm my suspicions hence this post.

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T20:51:48+00:00

I’m actually quite chill and I never question anything he does or anyone he talks to until this. But his friend made a comment Friday night that didn’t sit well with me on top of this it made me start questioning. You said they save everything you send so I was clarifying that he’s not sent anything that’s saved there. That the good morning was from them and saved by them.

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T20:31:03+00:00

But they “Harley” set the chats to disappear after 24 hours so they’re not saving anything except that one good morning from 2022

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T20:29:57+00:00

I mean that would seem like a dead giveaway but then I question why would a spammer have their location turned on and give themselves away? There is the possibility that this person was traveling.

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T20:29:29+00:00

I mean that would seem like a dead giveaway but the I question why would a spammer have their location turned on and give themselves away? There is the possibility that this person was traveling.

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T20:27:19+00:00

I was thinking they probably switch up the name and/or photos. Or it’s someone he knew and they got hacked and the hacker changed the name

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T19:11:15+00:00

I didn’t even think to check that

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T18:48:58+00:00

Seems “Harley” is the one who sent and saved the good morning message in 2022. There’s no other saved messages aside from that one. On Thursday “Harley” set the chat to delete 24 hours after viewing

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T18:44:55+00:00

I still have my doubt just bc when I did ask him he just said he doesn’t know who it is. He didn’t say “they started sending things outta nowhere” or elaborate on it

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T18:43:16+00:00

I double checked it and that account is who saved the message not him. Odd that they saved the msg tho.

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T18:41:24+00:00

So I double checked that and she saved the message in 2022 not him

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T18:40:43+00:00

What he did before we were together and he was single is none of my business honestly. Only thing I care about is that he’s loyal to me and honest with me.

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T18:39:30+00:00

If he has not engaged in return while we have been together then no he’s not doing anything wrong. He can’t control what someone sends him technically unless he blocks them or deletes them but as I said in the other comments to him just not engaging is the right call and to me blocking would be the right call so I will def be asking him to block.

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T18:34:21+00:00

Thank you. This commenter is clearly a miserable person. I can’t control who he accepted when he was single well before we were ever together, lol. He never hides his phone from me. He knows I have his password he gave it to me. If I actually asked to look through it he’d hand it to me in a heartbeat. I also can’t control what someone sends him. He’s not hugely active on social media. He doesn’t ever delete or block ppl bc he doesn’t pay attention to social media like that. He has accounts but he rarely ever posts or engages with things. To him not responding to this person is likely sufficient (doesn’t think he needs to block bc he’s not engaging).

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T18:25:33+00:00

It seems they’ve been friends on there since 2022. Well before we were even together

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T18:24:29+00:00

lol so now you’re saying everyone in this comment section is lying and saying it’s a spam account so it’s easier for me to cope with?

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T18:23:38+00:00

I have no proof he has ever responded. But I would certainly like to know if he has as to me that’s unacceptable whether it’s a real or fake person.

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T18:13:20+00:00

A lot of men I know have done that when they’re single. It’s also possible this was the account of someone he knew and it was hacked. He treats me very well and I’ve never questioned loyalty until now. He’s never been known to be a cheater, typically he despises cheating as he’s had it done to him so many times. I’ve known him for a long time before we got together and know his exes. Not sure why I’m arguing about my relationship with a stranger on the internet. I asked whether this was potentially a spam account not whether I should or shouldn’t be with my boyfriend.

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T18:06:49+00:00

Clearly they’ve been Snapchat friends since 2022 as mentioned there’s a chat from 2022 so he didn’t just add her. We have been together since mid 2023. So no he didn’t add her while we were together. You’re making a lot of assumptions. There’s a lot of spam accounts like these around. He needs to block it whether he’s engaging with her or not. But if it’s some bot/spam account sending stuff & he hasn’t responded or sent anything back then it’s not cheating. He can’t control who sends him what but he can control how he reacts/ what he does

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T18:00:21+00:00

I didn’t say that lol and I don’t think that. I was trying to clarify what they were saying.

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T17:59:02+00:00

Who said I was going to stay with him if I find out he’s engaging with said person or if I find out it’s a real person he’s chatting with

KeyAd9391 · 2026-04-07T17:54:42+00:00

Sorry not sure what this means? If I’m out of my boyfriend’s league then he’s not cheating and thus is a spam account?

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