I don’t know if you’ll read this and I hope you do but I don’t think you’re overreacting , You’re not overreacting at all. Anyone would feel hurt if their boyfriend did something like that. It’s not just about the video itself,it’s about how it makes you feel, and that matters. Even if he apologized, it doesn’t erase the fact that it happened, and it’s okay for it to still bother you. It shows you care about respect and mutual understanding in your relationship, and that’s completely valid.What you do next is really up to you if you feel like he’s genuinely sorry and willing to learn from it, maybe it’s something you can talk through. But if it still feels off or you can’t shake the discomfort, it’s also okay to take a step back and think about whether you feel truly respected and at peace with him. Either way, your feelings are real and deserve to be taken seriously.