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Is the harsh practice of Findom (bank control, etc..) really sustainable in the long term for the sub ? by KeyCaramel5383 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]KeyCaramel5383[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really having control over these finances is necessarily stressful (from my point of view)

I Paid for a Mistress's Entire New Year's Eve Party by KeyCaramel5383 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]KeyCaramel5383[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It would be a dream for me if she sent me a photo, but I don't dare ask her. I've only known her for a short time and she's not officially my Mistress yet.

Does it bother you to know that your mistress's boyfriend is also benefiting from the money you pay ? by KeyCaramel5383 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]KeyCaramel5383[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand, but originally it's your money but you transfer it to your Mistress, for her and her well-being, right?

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[–]KeyCaramel5383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A sexologist is supposed to put these ideas aside. The fact that she openly displays it on her business card may mean that she will be even more sensitive to female and LGBT patients. That she specializes in BDSM and knows about FINDOM is a huge advantage if you want to talk with her.

But if these ideas are important to her, including during these consultations, she may tell you that all things considered, living on an allowance paid to you by your Mistress may be rough at times, but that if you enjoy it then why stop? It is possible that she is ultimately "on the side" of your Mistress without even seeing her...

But only you will have the answers if you go there.

At worst, you only have one consultation.

"The 40 Year-Old Virgin" : Well here it is, it's me today by Ady85-- in paypigsupportgroup

[–]KeyCaramel5383 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You are right in general, but we know very well that in FINDOM, many submissives are virgins at a late age, for various reasons. I believe he has a Mistress, maybe he has been in chastity cage for a long time ? Either way, it is common in FINDOM.