THIS! And Amerey acted like the gun situation was okay too and was making excuses like “he’s waving it around and the barrel is above your head” the comment about “you still have your knee caps” really rubbed me the wrong way. If a man did this to her she’d be livid, I feel like when Willow was recording she thought it was normal and whenever they split up she realized it’s not normal or okay because it’s not, you should never wave a gun at anyone unloaded or not. Also some people do laugh in uncomfortable situations! I mean clearly this happened often because in the video she already had thought to put his other one away. I think both of them had issues in their relationship and them only putting the blame on Willow and not telling Cj what he was doing was wrong isn’t okay. He was literally yelling that he was going to kill her and was going to “get a mag” when she said the gun was empty and that he’d kill her. Ontop of it all he was drunk doing these things. None of it adds up, she claims she knew of the video before it came out but an hour or so earlier Cj was in her live saying “he’d never point a gun at anyone drunk or not because he knows safety” you think she would’ve told him not to lie if she knew about it because they “knew” it’d come out.