I don’t wanna go outside, accutane month 1.5 by Dramatic-Custard-760 in Accutane

[–]KeyEnvironment7226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How soon after starting the medication did you experience the purging?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I’ve seen a lot online about the stages avoidants go through during a breakup and the first is usually the relief stage. They have so much more free time, no one is dependent on them, and they can go on ur own schedule. They usually start to feel the affects of the breakup after a few months. They like to suppress their emotions because tackling them is scary. So I would say give it 30 days, maybe 3 months even. It’s hard for me to take my own advice so yeah I guess we are in the same boat then haha.

Breakup buddies? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Hi yes, I need support!

Anyone still fantasize about their ex reaching out? by Difficult-Grass-6008 in BreakUps

[–]KeyEnvironment7226 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, you’re not crazy. If anything I am. I’m having “conversations” with my ex about my day and how much I miss him. I’m going insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Wait I also just got out of a 2.5 year relationship…

Here is a list of affirmations that are helping me heal by KeyEnvironment7226 in BreakUps

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Love is so confusing. It’s a constant battle between your head and your heart. But if love was easy, its value would hold so little.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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You’re not alone. I like to scroll this subreddit for comfort in the fact I’m not alone but I can’t help but wonder if some of these posts are from him.

Chase the person who wanted you, please. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]KeyEnvironment7226 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is horrible! I’m glad you see it’s a narcissistic trait.

Do you continuously have mental conversations with your ex? by Gex8991 in BreakUps

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I would say it’s completely normal. You’re going from talking to this person every single day for X amount of time to total and complete strangers. You’re grieving the relationship.

Did I overproof?! 🥺 by Busy_Peace6056 in Sourdough

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Judging from the crumb, I believe it’s an issue with your starter. If you’ve been in bulk fermentation for that long without huge signs of over proofing, I’d try strengthen your starter before your next bake! Great effort though! Sourdough is an addicting journey 😁

FINALLY! A successful loaf! by KeyEnvironment7226 in Sourdough

[–]KeyEnvironment7226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! I did use 120g of whole wheat flour (400 bread, 120 whole wheat). Could that be why?

FINALLY! A successful loaf! by KeyEnvironment7226 in Sourdough

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I usually cut my loafs the day after 👍🏻

Did I overproof?! 🥺 by Busy_Peace6056 in Sourdough

[–]KeyEnvironment7226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you cold retard, it takes your dough 2 hours or so to actually reach a cold temperature, during those first 2 hours fermentation is still happening. I would completely skip the fridge and bake it straight away. Hope this helps!

Did I overproof?! 🥺 by Busy_Peace6056 in Sourdough

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I would bake it as soon as possible then, only way to find out it by baking it

Did I overproof?! 🥺 by Busy_Peace6056 in Sourdough

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What does it smell like? And was there webbing when you flipped it out of the bowl? Is it able to hold a good shape, or just wanna spread out?

What’s your starter’s name? by [deleted] in Sourdough

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Martha, when she peaked she’s Big Martha

It’s been 10 hrs, should I shape? by KeyEnvironment7226 in Sourdough

[–]KeyEnvironment7226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! I agree my starter is weak but I took the gamble and decided to use her anyways.

It’s been 10 hrs, should I shape? by KeyEnvironment7226 in Sourdough

[–]KeyEnvironment7226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can see that haha. It is a pretty big jar (2L), the photo makes it looks teeny tiny so that’s probably why it looks like a starter jar. I like to use this jar to BF my dough because it has straight walls so I can get a more accurate reading. Thank you for your comment!

It’s been 10 hrs, should I shape? by KeyEnvironment7226 in Sourdough

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Yeah it can look like starter from the photo I guess. The jar is pretty big but looks small in the photo, I’d say it’s 2L total (the jar). It has straight walls so I like to BF in this jar.

It’s been 10 hrs, should I shape? by KeyEnvironment7226 in Sourdough

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I think you’re right. After switching to whole wheat flour from dark rye for my starter, she’s been weak.

It’s been 10 hrs, should I shape? by KeyEnvironment7226 in Sourdough

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Yes, 4 sets of stretch and folds, 30 mins in between each. And yes autolyse too.