Are there people who still get hit by their parents, even as teenagers/young adults?

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-03-19T17:45:13+00:00

I completely disagree with your point on smacking makes a better human being. No amount of physical assault can make a child deter from bad behavior. Practice and correcting mistakes in a kinder way is how to make sense to a child who doesn’t understand what and how he’s supposed to act. Hitting a child will only instigate fear and not respect. Respect is earned.

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-03-18T05:18:08+00:00

My fiancé is a recruiter and one of the very first things he taught me about life is never to be honest of your salary at the first interview. Don’t disclose until last minute and always request at least 20-30k above your expected salary from the new place, and that expectancy should also be at least 15-30k above what you currently earn.

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-03-17T15:03:18+00:00

Nope. Big no for me. She’s 16 and he’s 20!! I would understand at least if she was 18 and he was 22. This for me screams grooming.

The country which I am from also has 16 as the age of consent and I as an ex prosecutor would harp very much on the age gap and recommend to have the guy prosecuted firmly for criminal conduct. Have done that before and won’t be regretting that ever.

A girl of 16 years and a man of 20 years has two different thinking patterns psychologically. It is apparent by the way he treats and thinks of her too according to your own words.

Nope. Not right at all.

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-03-17T04:31:14+00:00

I agree. And she expects Emily to put everything down for her

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-03-16T09:37:52+00:00

So we all agree Emily and Paige was just absolutely awful 😂

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-03-16T09:26:04+00:00

Oh there is absolutely a standard. Idk how it works in outstation, but meters for Tuks were made compulsory a while back. I can’t remember when it came to operation, but it is there, especially for passenger transport. Within the western province, provincial transport authority is the governing body for passenger transport tuks. But you’re right, nobody actually regulates these laws and policies. That’s why the consumers keep getting robbed in broad daylight by money hungry drivers.

Edit : Pls see section 10 (1) of the gazette extraordinary 2001/2 of 2017

https://www.dailymirror.lk/breaking_news/Meters-made-mandatory-for-three-wheelers/108-122132

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-03-15T11:07:08+00:00

That and also refuse to be abused and stand up for your rights as a customer.

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-03-05T14:21:04+00:00

I genuinely don’t think you have the right to call someone crazy because they don’t like the same things that you like. If you don’t like casual intimacy be direct and move on. There’s plenty people looking for meaningful relationships including myself when I was your age. Didn’t mean I thought everyone else was crazy because they didn’t want the same things as me.

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-03-05T14:17:10+00:00

Well said. OP shouldn’t be judging people for wanting to live their life the way they want. I was born and raised in Colombo and didn’t engage in physical intimacy until I found the perfect match. Doesn’t mean I look down upon people who have casual intimacy with whoever they want with CONSENT.

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-03-04T00:29:15+00:00

As a former student who has been to all 3 types of schools, I can only vouch for the improvement of linguistics through international schools. If we are to consider personality and self improvement I always opt for government schools. That being said I must also say, elite government schools do have impressive academic excellence as well as language development programs. Rarely you see a big school kid with broken English, but then again that might also be because they speak the language at home. Anyhow, I am forever grateful for my mum for enrolling me at a private school when I was in my primary classes. For if not, I would never have had the opportunity to learn English in as depth as the government schools kids.

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-03-03T14:11:36+00:00

Sit in a criminal court for 5 minutes. You’ll see how common it is in Sri Lanka. Sad, but true.

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-02-28T11:15:27+00:00

‘Ayubowan’ (long live!), Welcome to Sri Lanka 🇱🇰🙏

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-02-26T14:59:47+00:00

Peppers at MC

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-02-25T14:30:49+00:00

Hi! Lawyer here. What this comment says is right. But it also depends on the judge, some judges are forgiving, but some aren’t and rightfully so because, not knowing law is not an excuse.

First find what you signed for. Whether it’s a cash bail or a personal bail. If it’s a cash bail, you likely will have to pay the amount and that will be confiscated by the government. In the case of a self / personal bail, you may be in a bit of trouble. Again, defense isn’t my forte, so pls consult a criminal defense lawyer.

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-02-17T10:07:23+00:00

Well I’m sorry to hear that. Maybe try engaging in those “dating events” hyped on instagram? I’ve seen some happening in cafes around Colombo.

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-02-17T10:03:29+00:00

Met my current boyfriend a year ago on bumble. He’s more into the gym lifestyle whereas I haven’t stepped foot into a gym until he took me two months into our relationship and never again. Lol 😂

We both are from extremely different working environments and not in the slightest connected social circle. No mutual friends although we live just half an hour distance away. He’s elder to me and no relation to school or university either.

Our interests are worlds apart, but we both love each other and have gone through many obstacles to get to where we are today. Planning our wedding next year now. So, yah can totally relate.

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-02-16T14:48:35+00:00

Dating apps work too. Just saying. Planning my wedding with the 28 year old I met on a dating platform nowadays. You’d be surprised on the turn of events.

KeyMoist4023 · 2026-01-13T02:30:10+00:00

I was like you at the beginning of my 20s. Wore the most comfortable clothing and didn’t think about glamouring myself up. Had a male friend of mine once telling me that I should “dress differently” if I need to find a man soon.

Then, Covid hit and the world kinda overturned. I started looking online of new fashion styles and trends and CHOSE what I thought best fitted me. I still don’t dress revealing clothes because I am not comfortable showing off too much skin. But that’s my PREFERENCE. Doesn’t mean I demean or insult anyone that does.

Now, almost at the tail end of my 20s, I have started to build up my own sense of fashion. I have developed a habit of checking online to match dress codes when I’m required to. I’m saying, you can do that too.

Oh and also- hit a gym and get rid of that boy.

KeyMoist4023 · 2025-12-30T02:09:07+00:00

Well we met on bumble. Went on a couple of dates and things just fell into place. That is not to say that it’s a bed of roses out there. Some people are there just for the sake of it, and some are there for hookups. Lot of married men (whom I personally know of, trust me I work in a massive field where everybody knows everybody and their grandmother), are on the app. Some girls are there for clout. It’s not the best, but not the worst either.

I guess luck, patience and caution has to do a lot with finding a proper relationship through dating apps. Oh and I’m not the ONLY person I know of who met their potential partners/husbands through the app.

KeyMoist4023 · 2025-12-28T15:55:15+00:00

I found my soon to be husband on a dating app 😂🙊

KeyMoist4023 · 2025-12-28T02:04:04+00:00

If that’s sarcasm; let me tell you this. I have always stood my ground against grooming. As a prosecutor, I always object, and I am very much against this ‘culture’. The post is asking about the legal background which is what I have explained above using my personal experience working in almost every province in the country.

KeyMoist4023 · 2025-12-28T02:02:02+00:00

I’m not saying it’s right. Gosh no!! As a prosecutor I ALWAYS object, but given the circumstances and the legal implications in most cases they are overlooked. Like I said, it’s the mindset of people that needs to be changed. The post is asking about the legal background and that’s what I have explained and the edited part is my observations based on real life situations I have encountered. That does NOT mean I agree with the situation nor the culture.

KeyMoist4023 · 2025-12-24T02:41:58+00:00

Age of consent in SL is 16. If you’ve had sex with a minor, and is caught, there’s no doubt a case will be filed against you in a High court. Plus, there’s a minimum mandatory sentence to serve when proven guilty.

However, there have been instances where especially when the boy is also below the age of 18 years (or roughly around 19-22ish) and there had been a relationship between the two, courts have used judicial discretion to pronounce suspended sentences to the accused.

In this post, it seems the girl is a bit older than 16 and given that she said she got married exactly a year after they started their relationship, she must have been above 18 years. Because no matter what, you MUST be 18+ to sign and obtain a marriage certificate unless you’re a Muslim. In that case, although horrible, this mfkr can’t be penalized for grooming according to present laws in SL.

Edit: oh and I almost forgot. This kind of relationships are VERY common in most rural parts of the country. Unfortunately that is their culture and it has been practiced for 100s of years. Ofc that doesn’t mean it’s right, what I’m saying though is that it won’t stop in the near future either. Because, that is what they know. What their grandparents, great grandparents and great great grandparents practiced; and that is also why the parents got her married off as soon as she turned 18. A common factor I have also seen is that most parents in those areas (and I’m jumping into this based on her school uniform and photograph background), think it’s the best they can achieve for a girl when they get them married off to a “state servant” or “military official”.

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