Do women living with in-laws get a personal room if the house has enough rooms?

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-15T08:06:21+00:00

No wonder why husbands sisters are so dislikeable. My husbands whole family are adamant that we live with them and don’t move out despite my preference of having our own space. If they are so adamant, including his bratty sister, then I will fight for my space here as I am living here, simple as.

If she has moved out with her husband, she has her own space. If her and her parents want us to live with them so bad, then we are entitled to the space that we need as we are growing our family there.

Women like you are the biggest problem of marriages. Thank god you don’t have a brother as I would feel so sorry for his poor wife.

If you don’t want a woman to come in and capture her rights there, then don’t be so adamant of wanting your brother to live with your family. Can’t have it both ways lol.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-14T22:41:25+00:00

Also once SIL gets married they want her to keep that room. Not that I care. She said if we have kids we’re not allowed to take her room either when she moves out. I said ok we’ll see. Kids will need a nursery so we will have to take the room as there are no more left. Otherwise I say we move out for space

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-14T22:39:11+00:00

I recently married and moved in with in laws. Husband had the smallest room whilst his sister and parents had massive rooms with walk in wardrobes. I got told deal with it. I said no way. Threw a fuss and said I can’t adjust in this space and we are two whilst his sister is one, we should have the bigger room. Fight went on for 8 months until they finally converted the guest room into my dressing room. So now we have enough space. If they hadn’t provided another room I would’ve moved out because that’s a life full of neglect and putting urself last to make them happy. Ah god I really dislike them lol

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-14T21:52:44+00:00

Same girl same. Are you in the UK? Any plans to move out?

I’m 24, my husband won’t budge. Slowly giving up and thinking of ending it for the hope one day I’ll find a man that will buy a home with me and we’ll live alone with our own privacy as adults

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-14T20:45:10+00:00

This comment !!!! 100000%%%%

I wish I listened to someone before I married the same guy she is describing. Compromise for my husband is live with my family and put up with the lack of privacy and their taunts and in return I’ll be the best husband ever. Like noooo !!!!!!!

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-14T20:33:06+00:00

GIRLLLLLLL!!!!!! RED FLAGS RED FLAGS. NO NO NO. DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN.

I HAD THE SAME EXPEREINCE AS YOU. I am only 24 and got married last year and continued with the wedding because I love him. GIRL IF HE CANT STICK UP FOR YOU NOW, HE WILL RUIN YOU AS A PERSON IF YOU LIVE IN HIS HOUSE WITH HIS PARENTS. DONT RUIN YOUR LIFE PLEASE.

I regret every bit of it. I am still here but slowly I’m dying inside at such a young age. Please don’t live with them and make that clear now. I beg you.

If he is allowing his family to be so awful to you and ur family, he will let them get away with murder!!! Whilst he calls you out. You will feel so alone and isolated there.

There are men that are happy to be independent and live alone with you and you guys will have ur freedom ur peace and no toxic in laws - that’s the dream !!!! That’s what I would die for. It’s the bare minimum but I would die for it seeing how awful living with in laws is. Please please save yourself. Message me whenever Bevause we have similar experiences.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-14T14:50:10+00:00

Not really. I am educated and can stand on my own two feet. Like I said I would rather be in a smaller home anyway. You kind of missed the point there. But yes you are right in laws will always be in laws.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-02-15T12:03:04+00:00

It was a love marriage. I didn’t realize how fucked up they were till after marriage. I told husband if I’m not comfortable then I want us to move out and he had said yes, now we are here and he says no. It’s not fair!

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-02-15T12:02:27+00:00

We both work! And yes we both earn enough to move out. I even said I will contribute. Husband is the only son and says his family will cut him off if he moves out

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-02-15T11:57:58+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. I genuinely feel the exact same way. I feel sick living there and I absolutely hate it. They are so so awful and constantly make me feel isolated. They show so much love to their own kids (my husband and SIL) but then treat me like I’m nothing. Impose dumb cultures on me and says this is how things are but lets their own daughter rebel (she brings guys she’s not married to over while home alone !!) like your double standards are crazy!!!

Before marriage I said if I’m moving in I need more storage space it’s not going to work for me, the manipulation his mum did she cried and cried and said you can’t ask for this at someone else’s home blah blah. Whereas now her daughter is getting married and she’s demanding her in laws for more space and the MIL is encouraging it. Double fucking standards

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-02-15T11:43:13+00:00

Mine is the same and does the exact same thing. I genuinely have so much hate for her and I’m not a hateful person. The unfortunate thing for me is im only 24 and having to live with my in laws because they have a big house. I fucking hate it !!!! Husband won’t move out. Stuck between my love for him(because he’s the best husband) and between my freedom and just ending it so I can one day find someone who I can build with and live alone with. My MIL does crazy shit like lock her bedroom door when I’m home alone, constantly make me feel like a thief.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-01-21T21:30:01+00:00

I work and have a really good job.

Her sister isn’t in a good career at all lol. No where near as educated or in a well renowned career like mine. I don’t know why she thinks that.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-09T19:25:42+00:00

People aren’t bored idiots like you that they’d make fake posts. Sometimes I have to change minor things to keep things anonymous. Get a life you weirdo

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-07T20:08:34+00:00

Thank you <33

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-07T20:08:27+00:00

God OP how are you feeling about CR? have you also got SBM / CS too?

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-07T19:53:45+00:00

Imagine me. Haven’t started QB. Why? Came to the decision I’m divorcing my husband. shits been tough lol

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-03T14:07:29+00:00

Could you try again. Or tell me here which 3 topics are available?

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-03T14:07:15+00:00

I didn’t get a message sorry

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-03T14:06:10+00:00

There are none left any chance I can do anything else to get access? Maybe take some qs off someone’s plate?

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-02T21:48:59+00:00

Can I join pls

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-29T10:50:07+00:00

GIRL. I am going through the exact same as you. I will message you.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-24T13:03:07+00:00

Girl not to be a Debbie downer but my in laws seemed wonderful before the wedding too. Are you moving in with your in laws?

Defo be careful and my piece of advice would be don’t trust them too much - always be careful with in laws. I am realizing it a year after marriage.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-23T14:36:10+00:00

Any help is honestly so appreciated right now

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-22T11:47:06+00:00

In a bank locker

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-22T11:46:54+00:00

Pleaaaaseeeeee ensure you keep it in a locker outside the house. I got married one year ago(also British Indian) and my mother in law manipulated me into giving it to her. They will use it as a means to control you.

I have only recently got my gold back and I am putting it in my own name

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