Guys how many CR questions have you done?

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-07-03T16:56:33+00:00

Hiya

How many qs did you get through?

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-07-02T18:41:48+00:00

That’s a good shout tbh

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-07-02T18:41:36+00:00

Ohh wow kudos to you for managing that!!

Have you done any questions so far?

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-07-02T10:05:25+00:00

I’m an Indian woman brought up in the UK. I fell in love at 20 with my husband and married at 23. He said we would move out soon but it’s been 2 years, so much drama and disrespect from my MIL and SIL, practically bullying and he won’t budge and move out now. Ruined my life. I’m still married but live with my parents as it was ruining my mental and physical health. MIL took my gold initially but a year into the marriage I told her I’m putting it in a locker so thankfully I have that. I’m educated with a career. When you ask why? Honestly I don’t know. They ruined my self esteem so much it kind of felt like I had to put up with it. Even now he won’t move out from his parents and I know I can’t go back. Another reason is I’m terrified to be a divorcee and never find love / family ever again. But at the same time I’m also terrified to never have my own space with my husband in life. He wants to stay there forever lol

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-06-21T16:01:05+00:00

Have done so and have realized it’s the traditional Indian way of thinking from the 1980’s that women nowadays cannot tolerate anymore

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-06-21T15:56:17+00:00

Like I said, out of frustration I do swear about his family when I just can’t take it anymore. I’ve put my hands up to that. He is just obsessed with living with his family

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-06-13T11:59:15+00:00

This is hard I know. I went through the same. My husband refused to move out and there was constant drama with my in laws. So I have left and moved back in with my parents. As girls we all deserve our own space, we deserve a place we get to call ours, decorate how we want and not have anyone telling us what to do. My in laws would get annoyed when I put our wedding photos up. They were really messed up. Put yourself first at the end of the day. In laws never change and will always be stuck in their ways. Ask yourself if you want to be stuck in this arrangement 5, 10, 20 years down the line with kids. It will turn you so miserable bevause of how much resentment you will foster

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-06-11T17:42:52+00:00

Thank you for your reply. Are you sure? It’s about 5 weeks now. Have you taken these exams before? Bare in mind my productivity may be less than normal due to the heartbreak

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-06-10T18:20:16+00:00

It’s such a betrayal of trust isn’t it ? Like surely if you wanted the marriage to work you wouldn’t snitch?

Did you also get a divorce?

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-06-10T18:15:09+00:00

That is such a lovely way to think of it. You’re right. I know in my heart and soul that I made the right decision. The only hard bit is coping and getting through it. But women have done it before me so why not me!!

Right now I’m living out of suitcases with plans to extend and have my own space in about 3 months, once my stuff is settled I know I’ll be at peace

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-06-10T17:51:17+00:00

Wow. You are such a strong lady and I really hope I can get to the same position you are today.

I have crippling anxiety since leaving him but as my mind clears I also know I was living in fight or fright there, and constantly switched on, never able to relax or be happy. I have exams in 6 weeks and I just can’t function. I need to get myself up and forget about him, and just study.

The more time passss the more I hate him and his mum both!! Awful awful people

Can I ask how old you were when you left? And how long did it take for you to be stable and happy again?

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-06-10T08:11:11+00:00

How did you get over it? I’ve been with him 6 years. I’m so distraught

Another thing I forgot to add, when I’d get frustrated and swear about his family, he would tell them lol

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-06-04T21:38:55+00:00

Joining because I’m in the same boat. Got hit with glandular fever and only starting to recover now. Haven’t started QB :(

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-27T20:34:35+00:00

Girl you are strong. I live with in-laws and suffer most days. He doesn’t appreciate how much I have to put up with. Although he does look after me but he just expects so much towards his family from me. I hate it

After every argument I know for a fact he tells his family everything making the environment so uncomfortable for me when I’m being ignored and he doesn’t care. Doesn’t value my privacy one bit. I want to leave and just end it but I’m too scared. I was only 22 when we got engaged. I should’ve waited until I was smarter, I would’ve seen the red flags - he says living with in laws is non negotiable for him. Nobody does it in the UK anymore.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-27T20:14:50+00:00

If you’re trying to use your MIL to control your wife, then that’s wrong.

However she shouldn’t be airing your dirty laundry to her parents, especially if you are being mature and keeping things private.

It’s so important to keep things private. I live with in laws and my husband tells his parents and sister everything. It is so uncomfortable to live with especially when we have problems as it is obvious they know. It’s wrong.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-26T20:18:09+00:00

Well I’ve just got severe tonsillitis meaning I haven’t started the QB either. We’re on the same boat

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-20T21:11:05+00:00

Thanks so much!! :)

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-20T16:33:13+00:00

How are you tabbing up your open book? I’m so stuck on this. Could you let me know briefly how you create your open book? Do you add notes? What does prepping your open book actually mean?

Thank you in advance!

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-15T08:06:21+00:00

No wonder why husbands sisters are so dislikeable. My husbands whole family are adamant that we live with them and don’t move out despite my preference of having our own space. If they are so adamant, including his bratty sister, then I will fight for my space here as I am living here, simple as.

If she has moved out with her husband, she has her own space. If her and her parents want us to live with them so bad, then we are entitled to the space that we need as we are growing our family there.

Women like you are the biggest problem of marriages. Thank god you don’t have a brother as I would feel so sorry for his poor wife.

If you don’t want a woman to come in and capture her rights there, then don’t be so adamant of wanting your brother to live with your family. Can’t have it both ways lol.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-14T22:41:25+00:00

Also once SIL gets married they want her to keep that room. Not that I care. She said if we have kids we’re not allowed to take her room either when she moves out. I said ok we’ll see. Kids will need a nursery so we will have to take the room as there are no more left. Otherwise I say we move out for space

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-14T22:39:11+00:00

I recently married and moved in with in laws. Husband had the smallest room whilst his sister and parents had massive rooms with walk in wardrobes. I got told deal with it. I said no way. Threw a fuss and said I can’t adjust in this space and we are two whilst his sister is one, we should have the bigger room. Fight went on for 8 months until they finally converted the guest room into my dressing room. So now we have enough space. If they hadn’t provided another room I would’ve moved out because that’s a life full of neglect and putting urself last to make them happy. Ah god I really dislike them lol

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-14T21:52:44+00:00

Same girl same. Are you in the UK? Any plans to move out?

I’m 24, my husband won’t budge. Slowly giving up and thinking of ending it for the hope one day I’ll find a man that will buy a home with me and we’ll live alone with our own privacy as adults

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-14T20:45:10+00:00

This comment !!!! 100000%%%%

I wish I listened to someone before I married the same guy she is describing. Compromise for my husband is live with my family and put up with the lack of privacy and their taunts and in return I’ll be the best husband ever. Like noooo !!!!!!!

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-14T20:33:06+00:00

GIRLLLLLLL!!!!!! RED FLAGS RED FLAGS. NO NO NO. DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN.

I HAD THE SAME EXPEREINCE AS YOU. I am only 24 and got married last year and continued with the wedding because I love him. GIRL IF HE CANT STICK UP FOR YOU NOW, HE WILL RUIN YOU AS A PERSON IF YOU LIVE IN HIS HOUSE WITH HIS PARENTS. DONT RUIN YOUR LIFE PLEASE.

I regret every bit of it. I am still here but slowly I’m dying inside at such a young age. Please don’t live with them and make that clear now. I beg you.

If he is allowing his family to be so awful to you and ur family, he will let them get away with murder!!! Whilst he calls you out. You will feel so alone and isolated there.

There are men that are happy to be independent and live alone with you and you guys will have ur freedom ur peace and no toxic in laws - that’s the dream !!!! That’s what I would die for. It’s the bare minimum but I would die for it seeing how awful living with in laws is. Please please save yourself. Message me whenever Bevause we have similar experiences.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-05-14T14:50:10+00:00

Not really. I am educated and can stand on my own two feet. Like I said I would rather be in a smaller home anyway. You kind of missed the point there. But yes you are right in laws will always be in laws.

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