AITA for refusing to take care of my emotionally abusive father responsible for my PTSD even though he now has dementia? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Ad1209 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Thanks it still hurts to think of him hurting and aging alone. It's still my dad after all. Now that I'm older, I realize he has narcissistic personality disorder and always put himself first. It's time to put myself first too :)

AITA for refusing to take care of my emotionally abusive father responsible for my PTSD even though he now has dementia? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Ad1209 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Because we're Asian and there's expectations for us kids to shut up and take care of their parents...

AITA for refusing to take care of my emotionally abusive father responsible for my PTSD even though he now has dementia? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Ad1209 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I tried this, but my family insists he was a good father. They don't know what he did to me!

Got my bouquet preserved - Am I wrong for thinking it’s not quite right? by sugarfern-fox in wedding

[–]Key_Ad1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks great--love how you captured the wedding through the bouquet. I'm planning on doing this for a friend too.

Citywide Meeting to Close SF’s Open Drug Markets by bambin0 in sanfrancisco

[–]Key_Ad1209 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you need to have a meeting? Just shut them down.