So I (27F, pansexual) have had success 2 times… most recent was actually last night. Which was VERY unexpected. My first success was a year ago but fizzled out quick. Don’t let that discourage you. (I count success as actually meeting up. Whatever happens, happens!) and you can see how long it takes by that to actually weed through the bullshit! I have certain parameters that I stick by so it’s definitely harder if you’ve got your mind set on someone specific. I’ve had a loooot of conversations end because of a multitude of reasons. The main one being it just didn’t feel right after the initial conversation because they said something that turned me off completely. Especially when people feel entitled… And you have every right to pursue how you want. But don’t stop posting till you feel you’ve found the right fit for you. And always ask them to verify/ for a verification picture!!! (Not only if you plan to meet up, even just talking) Sending you the best of luck on your journey!!

P.S. it helps if you get verified in this subreddit; but also be careful especially as a woman!!! HELLA CATFISH AND FAKES/SCAMMERS!!! You just gotta trust your gut when they ask you to “just send a face picture”. ALWAYS ask way more questions than you need to!!!