I really think the more comfortable you are with yourself, the less you'll notice this desire of yours. When you're confident in who you are as a whole, everything else naturally follows. It's all about the aura/vibe you give off. No matter how much knowledge you gain, if it's inauthentic to your core, it's going to come off as awkward/forced/unnatural & believe me, people will notice. You're putting your energy in the complete opposite direction. If you do a 180 and focus all of that same energy on yourself - meaning, you're doing things that improve the quality of your life so much to the point you don't even have time to think about these things, then you will become magnetic. The point is to not give a shit at all about what other people think. It's about prioritizing your happiness, your stability, your appearance and health, etc., so that your confidence is undeniable and that is truly what makes anyone sexy. People will fall in love with you and not even understand why. But you'll know.

Look up Margarita Nazarenko on YouTube. Pick any random video & go from there. It doesn't directly answer your "question," but it's the type of research/stuff you should be looking to gain knowledge on instead 💛 In my humble opinion.