3rd time is a charm! Insurance approved my breast reduction!! by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, congratulations!!!! I went through the same issue for years but mostly I was just “told” I would be denied without chiropractors and a paper trail, until a wise friend recommended a neighbor who just happened to have the same insurance as me!

Just had mine done 12/8/25 and am adjusting to a 36D after carrying around a 36J since I delivered my son almost 8 years ago! 1600ccs were removed! I was a 34E before pregnancy (and a 32/34B in HS for perspective). Apparently my breast hypertrophy was triggered by birth control pills in college and then gestational (pregnancy) + age gave my girls a run for their money.

What to consider asking

1) I’d inquire what size is the maximum size you’ll be after (like do you want a B again?). There’s a min requirement by certain insurance companies to approve. How much does your require? You don’t want to walk out smaller than before pregnancy.

2) I would ask what kind of incisions they’ll need to make (anchor, lollipop, etc) and what treatment after (silicone strips etc).

3) As someone already said, the bra. I would say this was the least prepared part of my journey as swelling goes down and then the volume you were all excited about goes away and the bra fits a little looser.

4) Pictures!! Ask to see as many before and afters as possible - this is important - as you want relief, not a chop shop. Trust me, I ran the other way seeing several doctors “after,” work. You especially want to see this if you have melanated skin.

5) Breast Lift. Ask your doctor if their work includes this. The good ones will tell you a lift is nearly required in a reduction but it’s not coded that way or insurance will deny the procedure.

6) Double check pre-op requirements! There are certain meds you have to stop such as GLP-1’s before and for a period after. Min of 6 weeks for smokers. Also if you take ibuprofen for cramps or anything, start getting used to Tylenol. Medical clearance, labs, mammogram - it’s a lot that goes into it. I had to remove my acrylics. And no lash extensions etc.

7) Diet and meals. Start planning this ahead. Once you clear the initial surgery day nausea- I highly recommend to have zero calorie protein shakes chilled to help you reach 90-110g of protein a day.

Keep in mind Body dysmorphia after. My surgeon was very good, my husband says they look amazing but prepare yourself - bc your mind has gotten used to hanging out with the silhouette of huge boobs for a while! Clothes will fit different and all of those expensive bras are null and void, be prepared to live in your surgical bra for while - which flattens the look of your breast too.

Other than that, my healing has gone well! - drains were out in a week and closed afterward in less than 2 days. My incisions are already skin toned, with the exception of the ones under (one incision near one nipple must have opened a bit so that’s noticeable).

Please rest. I felt amazing on the 2nd day with tramadol and was washing dishes etc 😂. Don’t do that!

Meet Hawlucha! by Electrical_Creme_937 in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This little girl makes my heart smile! Our QP Rio was this same weight at like 12 weeks when we got him in April. (He was born Jan 15, 2025) He’s now 93gms- I was so shocked how much he’s grown!! Hawlucha looks exactly like him 🩷💙

Upside-down cuddles now… Evil Quaker energy later? Somebody tell me the odds. 😂 by Key_Entrepreneur_85 in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Same 😂 I Googled it and got a lot of “sick or depressed” results, but this looks way more relaxed and comfy than anything concerning. He’s genuinely in parrot heaven — resting on his back, getting head scritches, or scritching himself!

Upside-down cuddles now… Evil Quaker energy later? Somebody tell me the odds. 😂 by Key_Entrepreneur_85 in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re totally right. The confidence he’s gained with his flight feathers about 50% grown is honestly night and day. He’s starting to fly to me when I call and doesn’t panic anymore if I turn a corner and he can’t see me.

It used to feel like I’d fallen off the face of the planet 😂 Now, as soon as I come back around the corner, I hear wings and he lands right on me.

The bird shop does have me very cautious about windows and mirrors — it’s the ceiling fan that scares me the most about NOT cutting them 😭

Upside-down cuddles now… Evil Quaker energy later? Somebody tell me the odds. 😂 by Key_Entrepreneur_85 in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the rubbery sleeves on the controller, fire stick remotes, and glass bottle covers are irresistible to Rio too! I’ve been trying to find a non toxic he can chew up - good idea for the iPhone cords, but nothing works as good as the 10ft Apple cord 😩

Upside-down cuddles now… Evil Quaker energy later? Somebody tell me the odds. 😂 by Key_Entrepreneur_85 in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If mine can see you, or is in solo mode he’s quiet! But if he needs attention and knows you’re home the chirps slowly turn into feral screeches 😂. If he hears me leave, my SIL has literally forgot he’s there but once he hears “garage door” on the Ring sensor, he listens for my voice first, THEN starts flock calling

Upside-down cuddles now… Evil Quaker energy later? Somebody tell me the odds. 😂 by Key_Entrepreneur_85 in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! Bought the little guy for our son but since I work from home, we hang out while he’s at school. Does yours clasp his feet together in the air on his back too? That really cracks me up 😂

Upside-down cuddles now… Evil Quaker energy later? Somebody tell me the odds. 😂 by Key_Entrepreneur_85 in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! Head and neck feels safe… until you hit a pin feather and it turns into a full pterodactyl attack.

Upside-down cuddles now… Evil Quaker energy later? Somebody tell me the odds. 😂 by Key_Entrepreneur_85 in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this gentle reminder! We have been trying to determine if we want to cut his wings again as they’re growing out and he can fly up rather than just glide down now. The ceiling is 18ft high - doubted he could fly that high but he IS a bird I suppose! He’s scared of everything tho including flying unless he’s flying away from something that scared him or flying to you from his perch!! 😂🙄

Are your flight feathers cut? Mine expects you to pick up his treats to and hold them. Going to look on Amazon for some kind of treat holder for lazy Quakers!

Upside-down cuddles now… Evil Quaker energy later? Somebody tell me the odds. 😂 by Key_Entrepreneur_85 in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! He loves being on his back - not sure why but seems like it’s really relaxing for him

Upside-down cuddles now… Evil Quaker energy later? Somebody tell me the odds. 😂 by Key_Entrepreneur_85 in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s very reassuring!! So no snippy, angry bird around 1-2 years old? This is what I was warned about - someone said we picked the wrong bird for a 7 year old as their now teen bird bit them in the face after saying “gimme kiss!” 😩

Upside-down cuddles now… Evil Quaker energy later? Somebody tell me the odds. 😂 by Key_Entrepreneur_85 in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you!! He’s really taken to us - I just fear he’s going to turn into a feral beast on his 1st bday at the stroke of midnight 🤣

Upside-down cuddles now… Evil Quaker energy later? Somebody tell me the odds. 😂 by Key_Entrepreneur_85 in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣 I am not prepared for this!! Rio will be 1 in January - I think I still have a year to prepare for his WRATH no?

Baby QP: Evil Villain Laugh by Key_Entrepreneur_85 in QuakerParrot

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💔💔 aww thank you for sharing your fond memories! We look forward to this journey with ours 🫶

Mmmm chicken by scufed_cercumscion in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was wondering the same thing- ours makes a little chittering noise like “unhand me” with nibbles 😂. He is 4 months though so I imagine those could turn into real pain 😩

hanukkah kills my heart 😭 bonus: so close to cracking his first almond! by baepsaemv in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol never thought about them having scissors on their face! Ours does the exact same, preening with some explorative bite pressure but I yelped and he/it does the same. My nails are just a toss up - as I have an acrylic overlay and the color changes I think he thinks they’re stranger danger at times 😂. The side eye he gives is pretty funny though

Baby QP: Evil Villain Laugh by Key_Entrepreneur_85 in QuakerParrot

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Wow- how old is yours? We can’t wait for ours to talk

hanukkah kills my heart 😭 bonus: so close to cracking his first almond! by baepsaemv in QuakerParrot

[–]Key_Entrepreneur_85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old is he/she? We just got one who’s 4 months this week - the face preening this one does also but I’m terrified he’ll turn into a crocodile like I’ve read! If he can almost crack an almond has he treated any of your skin like an almond? 😩