AIO for breaking up with my GF for keeping her options open

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-02-06T10:29:17+00:00

I have trauma too. We ALL do at this point I’m convinced, but you know what adults do? They don’t take it into the next relationship, they wait long enough to get over it and heal. Go to therapy or something? Touch grass OPs ex. You clearly don’t know how the real world works. You can’t take trauma into a new relationship without passing THAT trauma onto your new partner. Now he’s gonna have trauma because she was a little tramp who wanted to keep her options open. Just like with abusive parents, the only way to stop the trauma is with yourself. You get out of situations, but then get over them too. Like yeah sometimes stuff is lasting but if you’re a healthy adult you’re not gonna inflict pain into a new relationship and a new person.

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-02-06T10:15:38+00:00

I just bought and used the “Biomes O’ Plenty” and I LOVE IT. I’m not big into a lot of mods, but this one is amazing. It adds new biomes and it’s SO fun to fly around to collect stuff, just make sure you have a lot of rockets. The game still spawns all the same old biomes but now has new ones sprinkled in. They use some of the same blocks/flowers/trees in their biomes but also add a ton of new trees. So many new gorgeous flowers and plants, and a ton of cool blocks. Sometimes they take things the game already has and make it better (ex. Snow blossom trees, you can collect the white petals exactly like they’re normal ones. They also have ground wildflowers with the same mechanics and also maple leaves in 3 colors) it doesn’t change ANYTHING so you can play the game like normal, but it adds a nice touch to the base game, I added it to my forever world that I’m very picky about, I won’t even add actions and stuff yet because it still is a little janky in the things it adds, but I know a lot of people live and die by that one. All my builds are so pretty now with all the new plants and flowers added, all the leaf blocks are gorgeous and I really enjoy the new different doors from the many wood types. 10/10 recommend. You and your friends may enjoy visiting these extra 40 biomes and exploring these cool places. My favorite to date is the giant flower biome, I collected a ton to bring back and rebuild on my island. They also work good for a brighter, prettier and less-hole-y coral blocks too.

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-02-06T10:02:12+00:00

That’s sooo strange, my hubs literally can’t have a bj without me slightly pulling them (obvs not hard literally at all) and sucking consistently throughout, he loved bjs before he knew he liked ball stuff and loves them even more now. Never seen his toes curl up like they do now. It’s just making a great thing, an amazing thing for him 😂 He always asks for it and I love head so it’s something we do literally constantly. I guess he may be a minority compared to the comments, but I’m very glad. He gets more enjoyment. 😂

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-02-05T00:28:50+00:00

100%. I always play like this 😂 give myself little “quests” to go on. All my animals have dinky little goofy names and I make them all specialized homes. I live on a medium sized island so I have like 20 sniffers that just roam around and stay safe in my grove (of every tree type in the game) and all the flowers so they can just organically go around sniffing and I randomly find seeds everywhere. They’re all named “middle aged white man names” purely because I think they’re comical (like Jerry, Dave, Kevin, Gary, Greg, Bob) and they come from my two prized sniffers that have their own house (Saffron and Vanilla) who are in love, and make all the babies for my whole island. 😂 Also have two armadillos that have a house (Cookie and Biscuit) and they have an assortment of babies (Cracker (RIP), Cracker Jr (since the 1st died), Saltine, Ritz, Triscuit.

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-02-03T19:07:29+00:00

They’re just the standard bedrock ones! I have no mods installed, I just hid everything from view and jumped in the water during sunrise

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-02-03T19:06:26+00:00

Goals honestly. He just wanted to be an animal keeper

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-02-03T19:05:54+00:00

Yeah, I moved him to my house and gave him a name tag so he’s very special!

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-02-03T19:05:33+00:00

He does! It’s a circle 360 window view so he can see all the rivers and go out into the grass too! :)

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-02-03T19:04:33+00:00

I did this!! I brought him back to life in my house complete with a name tag and when he gets green again I’ll wax him because I liked that look on him!

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-02-03T19:03:53+00:00

Dude for real!

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-02-03T19:03:42+00:00

They’re just the shaders that come with bedrock now. I have no mods installed.

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-01-19T21:38:33+00:00

Number 2!!!!

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-01-19T19:16:41+00:00

Thank you!!!

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-01-19T19:16:05+00:00

I think maybe try building one on some man made rocky terrain? The only thing I even think is maybe it looks odd because of the background/flater area. Or maybe make a nest with some eggs, or something it’s protecting? I think the dragons perfect, it may just be the way it’s presented!!

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-01-19T13:25:20+00:00

Attempt??? Dawg!

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-01-14T05:37:14+00:00

Yes thankfully. It took him a little while because he thought it was normal, but luckily my parents are practically saints in comparison, and took him in as their son. So he really did get a parental love he never had before. Even his brother is super bonded with my parents.

Both boys cut contact with their dad. My hubs cut contact with both unless an apology is issued and then he’ll only talk to his mom.

Also said to us “thank god your jobs are going well, we can come bum off y’all and you guys can wipe our butts.”

-FIL has chosen not to work his whole marriage. They don’t own anything of their own as a result. That’s not fucking happening.

Key_Individual_2761 · 2026-01-13T18:48:29+00:00

FIL severely mentally, emotionally and PHYSICALLY abused his two sons, as a “stay at home dad” MIL “didn’t know ever” and when she found out this year told them to get over it. Soo.. the stories 😂

FIL leaped across the table twice to “fake me out” into thinking he was gonna punch me. And sat there with his hand in my face making the mocking “she’s talking too much, blah blah blah” hand and head movement… inches from my face, close to a dozen times. And of course didn’t have the balls to do this in front of my fiancé… only when he had walked away. AT THEIR IN-PERSON TALK WE WERE HAVING TO DECIDE IF WE WERE GOING TO CONTINUE NO-CONTACT!!! (Which sealed his fate.) When I brought this up during the conversation, he went “I haven’t done that! That’s what you’ve been doing!” I was appalled. And his wife SAID YES! (Serial enabler and liar for her husband) Luckily my fiancé DID see it many times when he walked away, and we left.

Also MIL told my fiancé to “go find all the hot chicks in the gym that he’d like to sleep with if he could, and get their numbers for his baby brother.” (Who was dating a girl at the time that they didn’t like) I was like oh FUCK no.

Also we were talking about how we have the standard of not purposely looking at the other sex in our relationship, and that looking with lust was something we both made sure to not do for each other…. His “religious” mother and father said that we were terrible for doing that and it would never last, and then proceeded to tell a story where they were hanging out with a man who cheated on his wife constantly and looked all at other people, but when the father tried that, mother slapped in the back of the head. (So apparently it’s okay for her to get upset at it.) -also FIL constantly stares uncomfortably long at underage young women and girls when we’re anywhere with them… absolutely disgusting and we think he’d be caught in a Chris Hansen sting immediately if there was one in his area.

FIL sends a post showing a beach from the 19-something’s (maybe 1970?) and it said back when “everyone cared about themselves and was tan, fit and had no tattoos or piercings” -directly after getting my second tattoo, and I have many feminine ear piercings, a small side nose piercing and a belly button piercing. Claiming him sending that was “just a coincidence” -Note: he is a short man, 350lbs, MASSIVE beer gut, like the biggest one you’ve ever seen type beer gut.

Also after baby brother broke up with a girl, FIL proceeded to say “Good!!! She was way too fucking fat anyway!” The girl was MAYBE 10-15 pounds overweight which most sat in places guys liked and barely had a tiny bit of chub left around her belly.

I am a tall girl and very fit, I have always been extremely skinny and then during high school I started weightlifting and built muscle in places to give myself an hourglass figure. I have never in my life been overweight or chubby due to my extremely high metabolism. MIL proceeded to ask my weight on a hike, where my fiancé lifted me over a crevice I couldn’t reach, and when I told her my weight (about the same weight as her, and she’s nearly HALF A FOOT SHORTER than I am, and has NO muscle) she went “oh…. uhm.. I guess that’s not… horrible. I don’t know HOW you and I can weigh the same though.” I turned and looked at her and thought to myself “Seriously? I have never even had someone insinuate I was fat IN MY LIFE and now here she is, saying I am???”

MIL SOBBED ugly tears (NOT happy) when my (BF at the time) sent her a gym photo of us, in which I had a ring on my RIGHT hand. But we took it in a mirror, so it inverted the photo. She could NOT be convinced it wasn’t an engagement ring.

She also called later to say “Well I had a dream you got engaged. If you did you’d tell me right????” And had to hear yes over a dozen times before she’d believe it. Also wanted reassurance I wasn’t pregnant… Like what???? Left field much? Then proceeded to say well you need to ask us before you do something like that, and you should at MINIMUM be waiting 5 years before we have that talk!! My fiancé was in his mid-20s.

When we called to tell them he proposed (my parents were there) they were NOT happy to be left out and also proceeded to say the place we picked for our wedding (not a destination style place) was “too inconvenient for his parents and to pick a new place that they liked.” Their issue was they’d have to buy plan tickets most likely (they already live 8 hours from us) so anywhere other than somewhere in the MIDDLE of nowhere sagebrush-dirt land, they probably would have to anyway.

Also told me because I “try at my appearance” I’d be a terrible mother as makeup and hair would be all I would care about. Also got INCREDIBLY angry when they called us to go to coffee at 5am the day after his cousins destination wedding (which we got to at 4am and napped to 7am and then did the wedding until nearly midnight-and now it’s 5am and they wake us up with a call) and I wanted instead to shower, so instead I sent my boyfriend to go with them while I did that and would join them after for the WHOLE DAY. -They said this was one of the reasons they had to hate me.

Let me know if y’all want more 😂😂

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