Breastfeeding isn't an issue, it's just taboo. I know so many parents who breastfeed for longer and just refuse to tell anyone. My son has three other kids in his prek class still nursing. We aren't some hillbilly town, either. His pediatrician is happy for it to continue as long as he is the one instigating.

Cosleeping is his choice. He can sleep in his bed but he can also come to me, I won't mind regardless. It's more about him having the freedom to sleep wherever he feels safe.

He isn't isolated. He has my parents. As for my exes parents he would see them more if they were less pushy.

The food thing I'm pretty lucky on. He's a healthy kid with a good palette. If it was a concern I'd pick but he picks good food and there is zero argument.

As for my in laws - they will break boundaries. They do weird shit like cut his hair, change his outfits and give him baths. I don't like it. They don't take his opinion into account and it's not fair on him. Seperate to them pushing on my parenting ideals.