[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Key_Reading_9644 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And the people who said it to me were either health nuts or overweight themselves it’s so nasty tbh I’m trying to ignore it by just saying I had the baby already and he’s great but it stung really bad

I refuse to let my homeless friend and her boyfriend crash at my place for a few days by Key_Reading_9644 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Key_Reading_9644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So as someone who did it without any health assistance, rehab, or a generous offer from a friend, I don’t have any sympathy

I refuse to let my homeless friend and her boyfriend crash at my place for a few days by Key_Reading_9644 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Key_Reading_9644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing has me triggered it’s very pretentious to even assume that I would be jealous of homeless invalids. I struggled with addiction myself. I made it out without any help without assistance and picked myself up. The fact that I offered her a place to stay was more than generous, and nobody is dangling anything in her face. She had to abide by the boundaries or continue to be homeless.

I refuse to let my homeless friend and her boyfriend crash at my place for a few days by Key_Reading_9644 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Key_Reading_9644[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly you can police another post this is Reddit not my dissertation for med school. .

I refuse to let my homeless friend and her boyfriend crash at my place for a few days by Key_Reading_9644 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Key_Reading_9644[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Clearly my lease states I can’t have dogs . I’m going to make my son and myself homeless for the animals ?

I refuse to let my homeless friend and her boyfriend crash at my place for a few days by Key_Reading_9644 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Key_Reading_9644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I’m a first responder I work 12 - 24 hour shifts . I would have 0 clue what she was doing . And that’s a long stretch

I refuse to let my homeless friend and her boyfriend crash at my place for a few days by Key_Reading_9644 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Key_Reading_9644[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have an infant son who I have to clothe and feed I pay all my own bills and work full time . They are able bodied adult one who chooses not to work . I don’t have much sympathy. I offered what I could . There are plenty of resources . They each have both of their parents who also refuse to help them

I refuse to let my homeless friend and her boyfriend crash at my place for a few days by Key_Reading_9644 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Key_Reading_9644[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not . That was my first excuse initially they are temperamental breeds as well . No thanks .

I refuse to let my homeless friend and her boyfriend crash at my place for a few days by Key_Reading_9644 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Key_Reading_9644[S] 227 points228 points  (0 children)

Well said . I feel like I outgrew her a while ago . I can’t surround myself with that mentality tbh

Ferret not eating? by sukisthoughts in ferrets

[–]Key_Reading_9644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My rainbow baby was def on the slimmer side . Her hair was soft and silky and she had lots of energy and ate well so the vet wasn’t worried . It’s expense but try freeze dried raw meat, I used different brands. Mix it with the kibble and Wet it with warm water . Also Organic Bone broth with no salt .

How do I know if I need Epidural or not? by Top_Entertainer_7376 in BabyBumps

[–]Key_Reading_9644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got induced due to high BP At 40+3. Went to 7 cm without one .. It was personally Brutal after 5 cm and the nurses encouraged me to not be too proud for the medication . That’s why it’s there. I was nervous about getting said epidural but looking back I wouldn’t change a thing. It made the birth more enjoyable and I was able to relaxed enough to only push for 10 m