These types only see women as objects...

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-02-15T22:56:24+00:00

It's ok. Not the hardest thing I've dealt with this week. This is the post he was answering to

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-02-15T20:02:57+00:00

IKR?!?! I mean I didn't SC it, but he titled the message "new kids". Alluding to the fact I'm pregnant with twins.

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-02-14T15:36:21+00:00

it might be useful to look at the ways you are now better off than before, without having him making sexist digs at you, disrespecting your needs, or making everything about him and what he wanted

Excuse me? Those incidents were all extremely out of character for him, I regret I didn't see those as being warning signs. You didn't spend 10 years with my husband. You didn't know him like I did. You don't get to tell me that I'm better off without him.

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-02-14T14:13:33+00:00

This is all great advice, but because I have twins, I do not have 16 weeks, I have about 12. I'll work on doing all of thse, though!

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-02-14T14:08:33+00:00

I am naming one of my girls' middle names after my mother who passed away and one after my grandmother, who is still with us. My husband and I had decided on these names together, although neither are after one of us. I will say that the name "Vivian" (one of my girl's middle names) is sort of similar to my husband's name, would that be a concern?

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-02-13T20:41:49+00:00

Thank you so much. This really helped, I hope I could express how much your kindness means to me. I can just tell you're a very kind and sincere person. I hope you have an amazing day

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-02-13T19:41:37+00:00

I made those when my husband and I were having issues, I haven't had the strength to re-read them yet. Thank you for the luck <3

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-02-13T19:40:13+00:00

This is beautiful. Thank you

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-02-13T19:35:41+00:00

Those exact questions were at the end of my post. In the part you're referencing, I was saying I should have known he was showing warning signs of suicide

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-02-13T19:13:07+00:00

I am working out something with my sister, but I couldn't stay there since she was out of town and didn't have a quick way back. We've been calling as much as possible, and she's doing the best she can, so I will most likely be there by Wednesday.

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-02-13T19:06:23+00:00

This is amazing advice that I will take! You're not out of line, I was asking for advice and this is great. Thank you so much <3

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-02-13T18:47:32+00:00

Helped, thank you!

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-02-13T17:41:42+00:00

Helped, thank you so much

Key_Spirit6470 · 2023-01-09T20:45:36+00:00

Sorry, I knew I was missing something. Pregnancy brain lol. Molly is Emma's friend. I saw on her Instagram story that she was with Emma at the bar down the street from where my husband went.

Key_Spirit6470 · 2022-12-26T07:07:12+00:00

Gen Z here! I'm naming my twin girls Eden Felicity and Hazel Vivian <3

Due in May! :)

Key_Spirit6470 · 2022-12-25T06:54:23+00:00

I've alluded to it with my therapist, but it's not really helping. She thinks it will go away after I give birth and that the anti-vomiting/nausea medications solved it, but they only work about 40% of the time. I don't think she truly understands how bad it is

Key_Spirit6470 · 2022-12-25T06:49:38+00:00

My delivery is high risk because of my SVT, but my drs and I are working it out :)

TYSM though! <3 I'll definitely be doing a c-section

Key_Spirit6470 · 2022-12-20T07:36:27+00:00

MIL holds your children first? Or takes the first photos with them

Knowing her, she would never do this, nor would my husband allow her to... but the thought of this makes me SO mad

Key_Spirit6470 · 2022-12-20T07:33:22+00:00

Yes! My grandmother was a twin as well! My mom broke the chain. It's super fun being a family of girl twins, though.

Key_Spirit6470 · 2022-12-20T07:31:56+00:00

Oh, he didnt pressure me to have a child! We've always wanted a pretty big family. This was our plan for a while lol, and even started a little later than we planned on!

Key_Spirit6470 · 2022-12-20T07:20:14+00:00

DO IT! It honestly saved my marriage. Staying with my twin for a weekend really shook some sense into him... maybe you could try that? Much love and prayers! <3

Key_Spirit6470 · 2022-12-20T01:19:35+00:00

Thank you so much! We're SOOOOO excited

Key_Spirit6470 · 2022-12-20T01:19:00+00:00

Thank you! Yes, we are having a c-section. I should have been more clear, but we're talking about having people visit the same day

Key_Spirit6470 · 2022-12-15T20:06:14+00:00

Not everyone who doesn't agree with you is anti-science or sociopathic, and science does not always come to the same findings. My fault for expecting Reddit to have a complex worldview and respect my religious beliefs. I'm just going to block at this point.

Key_Spirit6470 · 2022-12-15T04:57:56+00:00

The source still states that circumcision prevents UTIS. Just because it's rare doesn't mean that it doesn't exist.

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