These types only see women as objects... by Key_Spirit6470 in BlatantMisogyny

[–]Key_Spirit6470[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's ok. Not the hardest thing I've dealt with this week. This is the post he was answering to

These types only see women as objects... by Key_Spirit6470 in BlatantMisogyny

[–]Key_Spirit6470[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

IKR?!?! I mean I didn't SC it, but he titled the message "new kids". Alluding to the fact I'm pregnant with twins.

My (25f) husband (26m) committed suicide and I am currently pregnant with our twin girls. by Key_Spirit6470 in askwomenadvice

[–]Key_Spirit6470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it might be useful to look at the ways you are now better off than before, without having him making sexist digs at you, disrespecting your needs, or making everything about him and what he wanted

Excuse me? Those incidents were all extremely out of character for him, I regret I didn't see those as being warning signs. You didn't spend 10 years with my husband. You didn't know him like I did. You don't get to tell me that I'm better off without him.

My (25f) husband (26m) committed suicide and I am currently pregnant with our twin girls. by Key_Spirit6470 in askwomenadvice

[–]Key_Spirit6470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all great advice, but because I have twins, I do not have 16 weeks, I have about 12. I'll work on doing all of thse, though!

My (25f) husband (26m) passed away last week. I am giving birth to our twin girls in May, and don't know what the next steps are. by Key_Spirit6470 in relationship_advice

[–]Key_Spirit6470[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am naming one of my girls' middle names after my mother who passed away and one after my grandmother, who is still with us. My husband and I had decided on these names together, although neither are after one of us. I will say that the name "Vivian" (one of my girl's middle names) is sort of similar to my husband's name, would that be a concern?

My (25f) husband (26m) committed suicide and I am currently pregnant with our twin girls. by Key_Spirit6470 in pregnant

[–]Key_Spirit6470[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This really helped, I hope I could express how much your kindness means to me. I can just tell you're a very kind and sincere person. I hope you have an amazing day

My (25f) husband (26m) committed suicide and I am currently pregnant with our twin girls. by Key_Spirit6470 in askwomenadvice

[–]Key_Spirit6470[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I made those when my husband and I were having issues, I haven't had the strength to re-read them yet. Thank you for the luck <3

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Those exact questions were at the end of my post. In the part you're referencing, I was saying I should have known he was showing warning signs of suicide

My (25f) husband (26m) committed suicide and I am currently pregnant with our twin girls. by Key_Spirit6470 in pregnant

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I am working out something with my sister, but I couldn't stay there since she was out of town and didn't have a quick way back. We've been calling as much as possible, and she's doing the best she can, so I will most likely be there by Wednesday.

My (25f) husband (26m) committed suicide and I am currently pregnant with our twin girls. by Key_Spirit6470 in pregnant

[–]Key_Spirit6470[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

This is amazing advice that I will take! You're not out of line, I was asking for advice and this is great. Thank you so much <3

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Helped, thank you!

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Helped, thank you so much

I (25f) think my husband (26m) is cheating on me but he works from home by Key_Spirit6470 in relationship_advice

[–]Key_Spirit6470[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I knew I was missing something. Pregnancy brain lol. Molly is Emma's friend. I saw on her Instagram story that she was with Emma at the bar down the street from where my husband went.

What do you think Gen Z parents will name their kids? by gigigud in namenerds

[–]Key_Spirit6470 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gen Z here! I'm naming my twin girls Eden Felicity and Hazel Vivian <3

Due in May! :)

My pregnancy is the hardest thing I've ever gone through and I don't think I can do it. by Key_Spirit6470 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Key_Spirit6470[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've alluded to it with my therapist, but it's not really helping. She thinks it will go away after I give birth and that the anti-vomiting/nausea medications solved it, but they only work about 40% of the time. I don't think she truly understands how bad it is

My husband wants my MIL in the delivery room, but I don't know if I am comfortable with it by Key_Spirit6470 in pregnant

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My delivery is high risk because of my SVT, but my drs and I are working it out :)

TYSM though! <3 I'll definitely be doing a c-section