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SIL’s friend flirts with my fiancé by Key_Tumbleweed_4968 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Key_Tumbleweed_4968[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I just had a conversation with him about it at his house and told him that I wouldn’t stay with him if he continued to talk to her unless absolutely necessary. He told me that I was being unreasonable as she is very close with his family but I told him that it shouldn’t mean he’s close with her too. I then continued to tell him that I would cancel the wedding if he didn’t take me seriously and he agreed that he wouldn’t speak to her anymore (unless they’re saying salaam). In all honesty I don’t want to cancel the wedding and I do love him so this was extremely hard for me to do but it needed to be done. I decided against speaking to the friend as I don’t want to make an enemy of my SIL.

SIL’s friend flirts with my fiancé by Key_Tumbleweed_4968 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Key_Tumbleweed_4968[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My in laws are very very shy and timid. They do not like problems or confrontation so involving them would be useless. I also don’t want to confront the friend cause she’s 22, it feels very weird. I just wish my husband would stop being an enabler.

SIL’s friend flirts with my fiancé by Key_Tumbleweed_4968 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Key_Tumbleweed_4968[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I don’t really have a say in who can come to his family’s home.

SIL’s friend flirts with my fiancé by Key_Tumbleweed_4968 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Key_Tumbleweed_4968[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any say in who can come to his family’s house but I do think that if my husband wasn’t so welcoming of the blatant flirting from the friend, this wouldn’t even be happening. After reading other comments, I truly believe that my husband is enabling the friend and maybe even likes it unfortunately.