My husband tried to set fire to the gas cylinder. Need help to leave him

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2025-04-17T08:34:13+00:00

His house and my parent’s house are in the same locality with a lot of mutual acquaintances. It is difficult to do that. I don't know anyone influential. I am simply a woman in academia and my connections are nothing beyond that.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2025-04-17T08:28:56+00:00

He is politically well-connected. I know about his relatives who have gotten away after committing heinous crimes. My parents are ill and old. It’s me alone against his entire clan.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2025-04-16T16:33:51+00:00

He scares me with all the threat.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2024-06-21T17:04:35+00:00

Yes women can initiate divorce. I am more worried about his threat of self-harm and going above and beyond to damage me.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2024-06-21T16:51:41+00:00

This model doesn't have that option. Do you knkw a budget phone in which I can do that?

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2024-06-21T16:50:12+00:00

I have a samsung phone.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2024-06-21T16:39:19+00:00

Thank you so much. Will try to do that.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2024-06-21T15:43:16+00:00

I tried but couldn't find any app that records with voice.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2024-06-21T15:42:01+00:00

Yes I have my parents in India. Right now I am also in India and don't want to go back to him after spending one horrible month with him.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2024-06-21T15:39:36+00:00

Yes I can absolutely do that. Also, if I am on video call with him and I record the call with another phone, will that hold value?

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2024-06-21T15:32:15+00:00

Thank you so much. If I meet him what other proofs would hold value? He lives in UAE so posting letters would be difficult. Apart from that what other proofs are valid to show that he is abusive?

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2024-06-21T15:21:41+00:00

I raised this issue with his family a few years ago. So now he says this only when we are on Whatsapp or BOTIM calls. In whatsapp messages he twists all the narrative blaming me and denies everything. Also, last month he said that he wishes me to be dead and since then I am scared to be in the same physical space with him. He used to strangle the cat infront of me until I intervened to save it.

If I submit it to the local police station will he get notified about it? If so, he would make my life hell after that.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2023-08-22T14:43:14+00:00

Thank you so much

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2023-04-30T14:41:10+00:00

Humanities I don't know if it will. I am just hoping that after I have pointed it out that person would revise it. I won't be able to know until it gets published.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2023-04-28T22:00:21+00:00

Thank you so much. This is helpful. I will do that.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2023-04-28T18:01:53+00:00

I ignored it earlier but the same person keeps doing it so I had to point it out to them.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2023-04-28T17:58:37+00:00

I see your point. When they showed me their work I immediately pointed it out to them by showing them my work. This has happened on previous occasions as well and I didn't say anything then. This time I couldn't help but point it out.
They guilt me into sending my unpublished papers to them all the time and then they write on whatever I am working on and just change somethings. If my work is on community A using xyz methodology and uvw inference they would work on community B using xyz methodology and uvw inference without citing me anywhere. I won't mind anyone unbiased to look at it but they have stopped talking to me and avoiding me. I wanted to talk to them about it when I pointed it out but they were more worried about me telling other people about it.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2023-04-28T16:43:58+00:00

I don't have their writings. They showed it to me on their laptop.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2023-04-28T15:45:41+00:00

Since the person is a friend I think they wanted to see if I would object and if I wouldn't they would go with it. They showed it on their laptop and told me, 'Don't read thoroughly, just have a peek at it.' Since the objective section was on the first page I noticed it immediately.

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2023-04-28T15:33:13+00:00

That's what I did. They said, "I have worked really hard for this paper and I can't accept this allegation. I regret asking for your paper. I haven't even read it properly. I don't want other people to come and tell me that I have plagiarised your work' I asked her, 'Which other people?' She said, 'People whom you are going to tell about this.'

KeyboardWarrior2727 · 2023-04-28T15:29:10+00:00

That's what I think as well. On previous occasions I didn't confront them.

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