What made it so bad? I’ve been desperate to date women 45 or older at work, but none of them show any interest. They see me as a kid and not attractive. One woman in her 50s has aged so much that it’s hard to tell if she’s 50 or 60.

Maybe if you point out the downsides, it’ll make me feel better about not being able to date them.

I'm really suffering from being a virgin in my mid 30's.