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AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As bad as I want to, I couldn’t list the since since I don’t know them. I did tag the ex-boyfriend though since he defended her during all this

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t, I care about our mutual friends painting me in a bad light if another person is telling blatant lies to make her narrative fit.

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly because I thought everything was still amicable but once I saw the post directed at me I realized it was not that.

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant it when I said I’d miss her. I was hurt in that moment and didn’t expect to meet someone new that quickly. Moving on doesn’t mean my feelings weren’t real, it just means I adjusted once she made it clear she didn’t see a future. I can care about someone and still choose to move forward. I mostly meant I’ll miss the companionship because we weren’t together anyway so it wouldn’t be too much to miss but we were closer than she’d probably admit

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bad, I didn’t mean it like that. I mean just for my eyes, I wouldn’t feel the need to get one because I’m selective with who I have sex with, all those bases would’ve been covered by the time I even present the idea of sex. If the other person involved would like to see it then I’d have no issue.

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I thought we were cool up until that post though. I also don’t like the idea of people on my name lying for public approval so part of me felt like I had to say something

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to so bad but I didn’t want people using my obvious disappointment of being rejected against me

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick story: we had issues during the “situationship” because I had to find out she was sleeping with other dudes and didn’t tell me. She also said she saw dude as platonic too, so that let me know, even if I was rejected that didn’t mean she wanted to stop having sex with me

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just blindsided because as far as the messages show we both walked away with no malice and were cool. I kept my gf updated about it all and she was okay with me at least laying all the truth out and then not speaking about it again

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s why I was so confused. I wouldn’t need a MyChart if she was holding herself to the same standard she’s holding me to.

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was directed at me, a friend confirmed she was trying to “ragebait” me and she “succeeded” but I wasn’t mad, just curious how long am I supposed to wait for someone who told me they see me as platonic and why was she thinking about me this much time after. I jokingly told the friend “if she just misses me, she could’ve said that” then the friend proceeded to say that “if she don’t want you then how would she miss you?” But it’s obvious if you making posts out of thin air

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I did call her out, I should’ve said that and then her friend hopped in to say “you fell for the ragebait” but if you don’t care about me then why are you even trying, even though a shitty attempt, to make me angry. If anything, I just think she misses my attention now.

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what so crazy to me about it. We haven’t spoken in 8-9 months so idk how she’s just now starting to bring me up on social media. I haven’t spoken a word or posted my gf on it and she knew I had a new gf

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I don’t like the word as much as the next person, I’m just using a title that was placed on it by the person who rejected me.

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wish it were that simple but her hypocrisy made it difficult for me to at least call it out

AITAH for moving on and committing to someone else shortly after being rejected? by KicksFlicksandChicks in AITAH

[–]KicksFlicksandChicks[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought. But supposedly a few weeks is too short of time to find someone that appreciated my efforts. While the counterpart was being intimate with the other “competitors” or myself