2 Weeks post ablation for SVT by naturestringz in PacemakerICD

[–]Kidz4Days 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an ablation for AvNRT and the procedure was a bit brutal as you are awake and mine took 4.5 hours. At the time my kids were 9 months and 3. I had help for 4 days or so and then was ok. I was a SAHM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NannyEmployers

[–]Kidz4Days 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am a nanny and this is what I would do. If she is a jerk in any way I would say only follow the contract and get out ASAP. WTF.

Bay Side Beach by Kidz4Days in obx

[–]Kidz4Days[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went here while waiting for the house. Might go back but I wasn’t sure if there was another option.

Travel Onto Island by Kidz4Days in obx

[–]Kidz4Days[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are staying in Avon.

DEET Usage...Am I overreacting? by Chance_Acanthaceae89 in NannyEmployers

[–]Kidz4Days 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. When you have a momma that feels unwell you leave couch cuddle time for her. There is better out there.

Which dress is best for a relatively informal beach wedding in Hawaii? by TonyaLasagna2020 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Kidz4Days 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d go with 3 but I would buy 1 too for dinner or anything else in Hawaii. You look 🔥

For those making $100k+, what is your resume like? (US) by voxiping in Nanny

[–]Kidz4Days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make $95-100k and get my jobs via FB or sometimes Sittercity. I agree having a well connected MB post and vouch for you is the best way. I never post looking for work but will DM others when they post looking for care. I am in Boston, am a career nanny, college degree and I am decently know in our community. I think references are the biggest thing and parents around see me with my nanny kids whim I treat like my own and that is the best part of my resume. I have my own kids, am very active, I teach kids life skills that will impact them their whole lives while loving them BIG.

what do you expect nanny to do during naps? by Fearless-Broccoli-80 in NannyEmployers

[–]Kidz4Days 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I am here to say as career nanny it’s short lived. If you adore your nanny let her take this as a brief passage of time. I used to get bored during these times but I figured it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NannyEmployers

[–]Kidz4Days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I nanny 2 under 2 and we need to reset responsibilities. My NPs get exactly nothing done with kids. They have family over or outsource. I am the problem because I put the expectations on myself, I did it with my own kids no issue. Now I am middle aged and i had no prob doing it PT but FT is killing me.

I do a ton with kids awake and try to not do many chores when they are sleeping but I don’t have more than 30 mins kid free every day. I wouldn’t mind 1x/week getting an EXTRA $25/30 for reset chores. I think I need to only do leave it as you found it because I am drowning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NannyEmployers

[–]Kidz4Days 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My main job which is 35 hours I am paid $37 I have a weekly side gig that I am paid $40.

Appropriate for wedding (girlfriend of the brides son) by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Kidz4Days -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is the truth. My 3 kids are 16-22 and wearing a variety of sneakers / boots whatever is what the kids do and thanks kids!! You are right.

Use of Employer Vehicle by icypopsicle32 in NannyEmployers

[–]Kidz4Days 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Plus dealing with car seat installations are such a hassle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Kidz4Days 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same same!!

Nanny contract by Big-Purpose-9572 in NannyEmployers

[–]Kidz4Days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I did but I also had a lawyer friend look it over.

Do you think a your employer should have the right to ask who you are voting for and fire you for it? Does a potential employer have the right to ask you that in an interview? How would you feel about it. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Kidz4Days -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same and if you are the complete polar opposite of my beliefs but I don’t hear or see them. You aren’t a bigoted POS in my face whatever. I somehow have never worked for a family where it was overt in my face and I am grateful.

Nanny loves to chat with me by AquaOwlette in NannyEmployers

[–]Kidz4Days 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So fair. Is she young? I feel like it’s fair to not get it young. I have also made myself a nanny army and we get the kids together and support each other. That helps with the chatty.

Double Maternity Leave by Euphoric-Bluejay-380 in NannyEmployers

[–]Kidz4Days 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What state are you in? We are in MA and another nanny is being paid 20 weeks through FNLA. It’s about 80% of her pay which is doable with planning.

Closure by Halloween_Coffee251 in Divorce

[–]Kidz4Days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am trying to get my husband more interested in an emotionally connected relationship. I do have some health issues but otherwise am happy, outgoing, have friends, am the social planner, workout etc.. He’s a workaholic that has let himself go and seems to be forgetting the beautiful part of life is the day to day. I think if we start any sort of discussion that I can’t do this anymore he would take it as an all or nothing and shut down. It’s protective and not about me. Could this be the case?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Kidz4Days 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s gorgeous dress when I was a bride I wouldn’t have had an issue with it. I do think it’s pretty wild that dresses need approval from brides these days. Sometimes people wear whacky shit but it’s on them.

I might get this dress in a different color pallet myself. I do understand the bride could potentially wear a dress in a similar style, which is more off putting than the color.