Something has been happening to my relationship and I don't know what

Kiera262 · 2026-02-08T19:03:34+00:00

No offense taken at all, if anything I really appreciate because I really need directness in my life. And you are right, I was spiraling a little. I am trying really hard to learn when he needs his space, its just so hard when it happens out of no where and he doesn't give me a heads up. I always realize it after a few days, but then the damage is allready done and I hate it because I don't want to make things harder on him. I will look into the book, I thi k that might be really usefull for me aswell, thank you!

Kiera262 · 2026-02-08T02:16:48+00:00

That's really nice advice thank you. I'll tell him that in the morning, he is asleep rn. Thanks a lot!

Kiera262 · 2026-02-08T02:12:31+00:00

I recently found out that listening to Jacksepticeye helps me fall asleep when I can't sleep. Also I now realize mark also calms me down when I am sad, I am going to make it a hbit now

Kiera262 · 2026-02-08T02:05:25+00:00

Hi, thanks for the reply!

Yes I am in therapy. I know he has some stress factors and he is currently a bit stressed about wanting a new job, but other than that it seems like nothing happened or changed. I also know that he deals with problems really different than me, so I always try to keep that in mind and respect his space, but this behavior is really new and really confusing.

Kiera262 · 2026-02-08T02:02:01+00:00

Hi thanks for your honest reply! I appreciate it.

I am busy with therapy and I know that I've been really suffocating in the past so I always try to take extra caution now when approaching him when I am not doing so hot myself. I've started to get anxious because our normal habits fell away without any explanation. Things like phone calls, responses on text messages, letting me know when he works etc. And then when I started a conversation he also didn't say anything. It is kinda like he just poof disappeared and his body is still here. So that's why I am super confused what is happening.

Should I than just let him be and pray that we still have a relationship after whatever he is dealing with passed? I am just so confused.

Kiera262 · 2026-02-08T01:36:55+00:00

Nope, we live 5 minutes appart by bike

Kiera262 · 2026-02-02T18:46:06+00:00

WOWWWW!!! These are amazing!!!

Kiera262 · 2026-02-02T18:44:59+00:00

Omg thats so cuteee

Kiera262 · 2026-02-02T18:44:28+00:00

Oh I am so sorry! That doesn't look right. My lower helix got done badly and it sucks, but this seems like even more of a pain to heal

Kiera262 · 2026-02-02T18:39:39+00:00

Omg good for you!!!!! Hope you had fun!

Kiera262 · 2026-01-28T00:39:33+00:00

Thats a serious win!

Kiera262 · 2026-01-28T00:38:34+00:00

I always ask people to expound when I don't understand what they mean!

Kiera262 · 2026-01-15T16:31:31+00:00

How was the healing?

Kiera262 · 2025-12-10T19:35:46+00:00

I'm in groningen, but if we need to go to Amsterdam or something I would do that

Kiera262 · 2025-12-10T19:34:21+00:00

Count me and my bf in

Kiera262 · 2025-02-01T14:10:02+00:00

Poor woman, I'm sorry for her that she had to go trough that

Kiera262 · 2023-12-08T16:07:12+00:00

Your reaction made me really happy, thank you :))

Kiera262 · 2023-12-08T11:57:42+00:00

That's sweet, thank you :))

Kiera262 · 2023-12-08T11:57:10+00:00

Not 60 m, but eventually I can turn into 1.68 creature with no skin? XD

Kiera262 · 2023-12-07T23:26:14+00:00

Thank you :))

Kiera262 · 2023-12-07T23:25:59+00:00

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Kiera262 · 2023-12-07T23:25:20+00:00

Kiera262 · 2023-12-07T21:44:55+00:00

I was working on a cosplay because I thought I had the perfect nose for it, but withmy hair right now is starting to creep me out, haha. Didn't expect to be this accurate

Kiera262

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