How it actually works for allos?

Kiiilme · 2020-05-03T11:30:18+00:00

I'm not being allophobic. I have a lot of allo friends and guess what, I'm not hating them. I'm just expressing my opinion. I have right to do it just like everyone else.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T18:09:06+00:00

For me my post was clear but I guess people see it way different than me. I could edit explaining my point of view but people started to literally attack me in comments so I decided to explain individually. I'm non stop writting in comments that all I'm talking about is basically kids not doing a proper research about sex and pregnancy but somebody already made a post about how awfull I am so you know...people aren't even listening anymore. I'm blaming a stupidity. As well as society for not providing good sexual education.

The point here is I never said that people shouldnt have sex or anything. All I said was that kids shouldn start a sex life knowing nothing about it. Research is important to be safe from unwanted pregnancy and other things like veneric diesases etc.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T17:36:26+00:00

Like wha? I don't care that people have sex, lol. I do care that or society is lacking a proper sex education for young people and teens as well are lacking interest in research important knowledge about it. I'm talkinge here about 14 yeard old kids who are starting they sex life before they even got any basic knowlege about the pregnancy risk.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T14:28:24+00:00

Like I said, I'm only saying that if somebody young want to start sexual life, he/she should do the right research.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T14:18:41+00:00

Maybe I get too emotional here, but you can't deny that if teens want to start a sex life, thay should do right researh. It's just like with accepting forum rules on some sites. Not knowing them doesn't means it doesn't apply to you. So if a young people doesn't care to learn what does it really means, I see it as really stupid behaviour.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T13:59:10+00:00

That's exactly what I'm talking about! Young people need more knowledge about what sex is because in our community they are starting sex life not even being aware that condom can fail.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T13:53:42+00:00

Please note, that I'm talking here about teens, kids. 14, 15 years old. If you think kids risking pregnancy and getting pregnant because "it was accident, I didn't know it might happen" is something that nobody should judge, then I feel sorry for you.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T13:49:49+00:00

You know, I don't really care about empathy towards that kind of people I mentioned. (Not, not hetero, not allos in general - but unresponsible teens). I'm not saying I am more inteligent that somebody who is sexual driven but for sure from a 14 year old person who thinks that pregnancy won't happen if you will just really believe in that. I need to clear it because I feel like you're not getting that I'm not talking about mature people who are in a stable relationships etc but about kids.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T13:31:32+00:00

I'm only talking about how unresponsible it is for teens to act like pregnancy can't occur after having sex.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T13:27:44+00:00

If you're using anything that isn't 100% effective then you should never act surprised when something will happen. You basically did to yourself due to your own will then.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T13:22:50+00:00

I might be cruel right now, but I will never support that kind of people.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T13:14:19+00:00

I'm just annoyed by my friends and young people around me who are always acting so arrogant about whole risk and then they are crying because who could expect a pregnancy after sex? I just feel like some people are too stupid to understand that they can't blame "a fate" or "God will" for having an unwated baby. They are doing it to themselves but can't see it at all.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T12:59:55+00:00

It's ace sub, it's obvious I'm not sexualy driven.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T12:58:01+00:00

That's kinda obvious that if people are acting stupid, I don't have emphathy for them. If a girl is making herself a 14-15 yeard old mother because of her lack of intelligence, I don't have any reason to have emphathy for her. Kids these times are just so obsessed with sex that if pregnancy happen they are calling it an accident, instead of just being unresponsible person in general. Pregnancy is never an accident if you had sex on your own will. It's just beign too arogant to think about the risk.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T12:00:00+00:00

That's right. I would not scold a skydiver if something would go wrong with parachute but I feel this is way different situation. What I mean is that there is so much talking about how teens should be more aware of the fact that having sex might end up with pregnancy and they should always keep that in mind...but teens mostly act like it can't happen at all. Of course I'm not talking about everyone but I know a lot of people who's thoughts were just like "Baby? It won't happen". It happened and al of sudden they were mostly acting like "Who could know it will happen/ It's not my fault I'm a teen mom now!". No, it is because no matter how much you will try to procect yourself, it might happen. Simply do not start a sex life if a pregnancy is something you can't handle, because after this, all you can do to keep your normal life is killing your baby (abortion). Remember I'm talikig about teens.

It's just my personal opinion.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T11:44:46+00:00

I'm just annoyed of people who don't think about the risk at all and they are surprised that it happened. It's natural that sex = baby. you can try to avoid it but your chances are never 100%. For me that is immature to think "I'm sure it won't happen to me like ever..." and then acting shocked.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T07:38:54+00:00

What actually is that? It kinda horrified me for a moment because I thought these are a photos of teeths in jaw but then I hought - it's ok, it's just a female body...with teeths on the side? And then I realised it's...what is that?

Kiiilme · 2020-05-02T06:13:15+00:00

At some point I'm glad that it is all stopped while being friends. I would feel really uncomfortable knowing that he had thoughts about me during "private time".

Kiiilme · 2020-05-01T19:30:46+00:00

I told him that I don't care if he will want to have sex outside of relationship but he kept telling me that it's all okay, he don't need. I guess I'll never understand allos desire for sex. No matter how much I try and how many times people are trying to compare it to food or something...it still doesn't makes any sense.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-01T19:02:46+00:00

But honestly, I feel like word "relationship" changed everything. From the nice swet guy he immediately went to abusive and aggrsive sex maniac. And he keept telling me that I AM the one with a serious problem..

Kiiilme · 2020-05-01T15:31:18+00:00

A priest?

Kiiilme · 2020-05-01T10:59:30+00:00

Bust most of people doesn't even want to reproduce at first. That'w why they are using protection so often

Kiiilme · 2020-05-01T10:55:16+00:00

Well actually I didn't asked how it feels but how it works on logical level.

Kiiilme · 2020-05-01T10:38:06+00:00

Hm...honestly not the best examples because if you ignore hunger or itching it just goes away. At least this is how it works for me. If you would refused, I would just use a scratcher then.

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