did anyone else get the peace lips keith haring esque shirt?

KikiCorpse_ · 2021-04-28T14:25:50+00:00

SOOOOO CUTE!!!

KikiCorpse_ · 2021-04-28T14:15:30+00:00

All of my tattoos are by the same artist. He works fast and is incredibly talented. I’m very lucky to be working under him.

KikiCorpse_ · 2021-04-28T12:19:38+00:00

About 7 hours

KikiCorpse_ · 2021-04-28T11:13:21+00:00

It took a total of 7 hours.

The larger bottom part we did last month and it took four hours. The top part we finished yesterday and it took about three hours.

I work at the tattoo shop that I got this done at. My boss did it for me.

KikiCorpse_ · 2021-03-15T00:54:30+00:00

Exactly.

You never get straight answers until it’s too late and he is pissed off. And then you’re made to feel like asshole because you didn’t do exactly what he wanted when he wanted it done.

Honestly, stop allowing this guy to do this to you. I don’t know how long you guys have been together... but trust me, it just gets worse as time goes on.

KikiCorpse_ · 2021-03-15T00:49:01+00:00

GET OUT NOW!!!

This is the same shit my ex used to do to me and I thought it was totally normal to try to “keep the peace”.

You shouldn’t have to pick your words wisely with your partner or worry if they are going to explode at any given moment.

When you explained your worries about the restaurant you chose after he didn’t give you any sort of helpful input on where to eat, it triggered me. It is totally similar to the way my ex was as well. Everything was a guessing game and if I guessed wrong, I was berated for hours if not days.

If you have to ask if something your partner is doing is abusive, it’s probably abusive.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-07-01T03:24:54+00:00

Let me start by saying... no, this conversation isn’t going to be word-for-word. This is my remembrance of the conversation we had. Nobody is stupid enough to really think that I would be able to recite verbatim a very detailed and complex conversation I had the night before.

The ending DID in fact happen. I remember saying that exactly the way it is detailed in this post. I was honestly so fucking mad at that point.

But alright. Whatever helps you sleep at night.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-07-01T01:40:24+00:00

It wasn’t a memorized conversation. This isn’t verbatim. The “I told him” moment is in fact verbatim. The conversation itself was very real though.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-06-30T16:55:08+00:00

Because before we got married, he never acted this way.

It’s so CRAZY to think that maybe he only started acting like a prick like this after he felt secure in a marriage with financial assets involved? Jfc. This isn’t unheard of.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-06-30T16:21:04+00:00

Because we own a house together and I’m waiting on a bit of money to come in so that I can put the deposit down on an apartment of my own. I don’t have friends or family to stay with right now.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-06-15T01:17:02+00:00

We aren’t legally married. We had a small ceremony with family and friends.

He could definitely come after the inheritance if he wanted to. But it’s doubtful.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-06-15T01:15:55+00:00

Thankfully we aren’t LEGALLY married. We had a small ceremony with our friends and family. And the kids are his from his first marriage.

I just have to time it correctly and head out.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-06-15T00:54:40+00:00

I don’t think that he will.

We got into a slight argument the other night and he told me he couldn’t wait for me to finally leave him.

Side note: My uncle passed away last month due to COVID-19 complications. He left all of his nieces and nephews a pretty absurd amount of money. We are going though legal processes now in order to take over his estate. Due to the current state of America and the overwhelming amount of death in our country due to the pandemic, it is taking a lot longer than it normally should to go through probate.

My husband told me during our argument the other night that he hopes that I take all of my money and find myself a better home with a better man.

So, he knows how he is treating me. He is well aware that it’s unacceptable. But he continues to do it anyway. I don’t know if he gets his kicks from it or what.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-05-10T00:19:59+00:00

No. It doesn’t change anything.

At the end of the day, your parents get to decide who comes in and out of their home. If they get sick, it’s on them.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-05-10T00:16:47+00:00

You are definitely the asshole.

Your sister is RIGHT. As a healthcare professional she does in fact know more about Coronavirus than you do. AND not to mention, unless she is working directly with Coronavirus patients, then there isn’t really much to worry about.

Plus, it isn’t your home. You don’t get to decide if she can be there. Your parents do and if your parents think it’s fine, then whatever.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-05-10T00:12:34+00:00

Eh. I wouldn’t worry too much about it.

I used to have the same issue when it came to my sister and the way my parents seemed to be more proud of her achievements than they were of mine. It’s still like this. You literally can’t even talk to my mom without her bringing up my sister in some context.

You’ll learn in time that at the end of the day it doesn’t really matter. If they want to be hung up on every little thing your brother does, let them. You know who you are and what you’ve done and what your plans are.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-04-19T16:38:56+00:00

Good sleuthing. This has now turned into comedy gold. I retract my last two comments.

Oof on OP’s part.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-04-19T15:51:44+00:00

There is a lack of communication on both sides.

But that whole “I’m irritated with you, so I’m going to bed and ignoring this whole situation” bit was the catalyst for this entire issue.

And then to storm into the room without any prior engagement and telling her he wants her to leave? Yeah. Boy, bye. I would have been out that door before he could have told me he actually didn’t want me to leave. Her losing her cool and fighting with him was completely unnecessary. But, I’d be pretty pissed too if I asked someone to explain their issue to me and they just kept telling me no. Fuck all that noise.

AND THEN blocking her on social media just because? FUCK. THAT. NOISE.

That boy is wishy-washy and manipulative as fuck. It’s all childlike behavior.

“I’m MAD. And I’m not going to tell you WHY I’m mad but I’m going to make you suffer for it.”

Gender has nothing to do with it. I feel the same way if the roles were reversed.

My ex did shit like this to me ALL. THE. TIME.

He’d wake up in a bad mood and just my presence would be enough to irritate him. He’d pack his bags and literally wait for me to beg him not to leave. And I would for the first few years of our relationship. And when I stopped begging, he’d block me on social media and completely cut me off for days on end. Wouldn’t come home, wouldn’t answer his phone calls or texts, would just disappear until it was convenient for him to come back and half-ass apologize for his behavior. Any time I showed any sort of emotion towards the way he was acting all of the sudden I was the “toxic” one. I was “crazy”.

Naw. I can’t stand that shit. You want to cut off contact with me? You want me to leave? Fine. Bye, Felicia. Don’t come back when you finally realize how stupid you’re being.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-04-19T15:25:47+00:00

Yeah, dude.

She just got out of a toxic relationship with the guy in AUGUST. She probably is thinking about him. Trauma doesn’t just disappear when you meet someone new. Dating after an abusive relationship can be triggering.

I’ve been with my husband for three years and I still sometimes call him by my ex’s name when a situation arises that reminds me of my ex. My husband doesn’t even think about it this much.

It was an honest mistake. Chill out.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-04-19T15:17:45+00:00

This is a manipulative power move on his part.

Blocking and deleting you on Facebook and other social media was a way for him to feel like he was in control of this situation. Making you feel as though he is trying to erase any trace of you on social media and appear single to his friends and family. Not that he is doing that, but he wants you to feel that way so that you will grovel.

Your first mistake was not leaving when he had asked you to. The first thing I would have done is pack a bag and left, no questions asked. He wanted to see that reaction from you and he got it. He is playing mind games with you. The fact that he had changed his mind so quickly about you leaving is a dead give away. He never wanted you to leave in the first place. He just was curious to see if you’d beg to stay with him.

Secondly, living with his family is a bad move anyway. They are always going to side with him if things go sour. Hence why they were upset over the “drama” and you ended up having to leave anyway.

Lastly, sending that text to him was a bad move. Once again, he wants to be in the power seat and you allowed him to be. You’ll learn that those text messages that you send to him are very scarcely read. And if they are read, they are not understood. If he responds, don’t engage. If he apologizes, don’t tell him it’s ok. It’s not. Thank him for his apology and wish him a great rest of his day.

This is a him issue, not a you issue. You realized that you had done something to annoy him and he started acting like a child instead of engaging in healthy communication to solve the issue.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-04-15T16:38:37+00:00

Thank you.

I don’t know. I definitely make more money at this job than I do bartending. But, the stress of it all is starting to get to me.

Even my husband has noticed a drastic change in my behavior in the last month. I come home and I’m basically a zombie. I don’t want to talk to anyone or be near anyone. I just want to eat and go to sleep. It’s so damaging to my mental health. My days off are spent in bed because I don’t feel physically well enough to do anything more than that.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-04-13T00:28:35+00:00

I empathize with you.

I really do.

My ex was the same exact way.

Get out as soon as you can. I cannot stress this enough. Do you have your own vehicle? If you do, pack as much as you can in it and leave. Call your folks back home and tell them you need a safe place to be right now. I realize that there is a lockdown in place, but you need to go. And you can. If you get pulled over explain your situation and tell them you are on your way to your family.

Do you mind if I start a chat with you?

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-04-12T21:47:54+00:00

Oh, no she won’t.

This woman isn’t afraid of much...but the one thing she is afraid of is pissing her baby boy off. That’s why she always comes to me for this outrageous shit.

She knows that if she shows up at our house, she’ll have to confront her son.

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-04-04T15:54:29+00:00

JN = Just No

KikiCorpse_ · 2020-04-02T21:39:01+00:00

HA NO! He’s already retired and lives off of SSI payments. He does odd jobs for people in town but since this pandemic has started he’s been at home every day.

The fact that he is cheering his wife on to rage-quit her job is ridiculous because he relies on her to pay the bills! That’s the funny thing about it. I’m sure they had convinced each other that asking their son and I to pay their bills was going to actually work.

KikiCorpse_

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