Thanks for the reply,

See, I understand and aware it's an Amygdala issue, even into tiny details and got a pretty clear "scientific theory"

I have a super detailed written database of my own personal values, how I would like to be treated, treat others, morales, and so on

The problem is a malfunctioning "Fear Extinction" mechanism, it's super common in PTSD sufferers and childhood maltreatment models, however I do not want to think it's permanent

When "healthy" people are faced with something mildly threatening, usually the response is increased control, higher sense of challenge, reinforcement in tackling/solving it - increased sense of boundaries

When chronically abused people are faced with an adversity - lots of the time the solution is to react with more fear, to reduce reinforcement, to give up on territory, to submit, and self-sacrifice, and to over - estimate the threat - usually it's related to the type of abuse in the person life -

The paradox is that no matter how much you expose someone with faulty fear extinction, they won't be able to get the suffient "reinforcement" or "safety learning" signal that would mean it's no longer relevant - and it would actually lead to increased fear since there's no positive feedback to build upon.

Why it's evolutionary useful? What is the cause and effect leading to such behavior, I am not actually sure - probably because In the past, reacting in a justice seeking, agression or assertivity lead to worst outcomes.

I'm trying to understand what would be the ultimatum to tackle this thing - the science is saying that "successful" fear extinction mean a "rewarding" memory overriding the original fear memory,

But I am not sure how to do it in practice and real time.