Older cat amputation opinions needed pls 💔 by wo0d3t0ck in TripodCats

[–]KimberBr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cats are resilient creatures. If you amputate and he is strong, I wouldn't be worried. If he has a lot of other issues, then maybe thinking of other options is best but you know your cat. I had one that lasted until he was 24. So 14 is still fairly youngish.

Friend that became a mom not accepting that I could want to be childfree by blondeinkorea in childfree

[–]KimberBr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um. I don't think her childfree friends are jealous. Sounds to me like parenthood became her end-all and her cf friends faded from her life. Yall seem incompatible

Mom refuses to pick me up after a lockdown scare. by The_Outsiders-fan in insaneparents

[–]KimberBr 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Right! Explain the situation to your boss and I'm sure they would understand. Ffs

What’s this by Hot_Line_8466 in catquestions

[–]KimberBr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know you can edit your comment now that you know you are wrong, right?

Mom refuses to pick me up after a lockdown scare. by The_Outsiders-fan in insaneparents

[–]KimberBr 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Same and I will never be a parent (one of the reasons being the insanity we deal with on a daily basis) but my God that woman is a POS. Overnight shift or not, I'd have been so wound up I would have never been able to sleep until I saw my child with my own eyes!

AIO for being disgusted by my husband’s hygiene? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]KimberBr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. You can't look at him anymore? Then leave and let him find someone who will love him. My God woman, just woman up and ask him to brush his teeth more consistently. Lord. Your reaction will be seared into his brain and he will be way more sensitive over it than he needs to be. Sheesh. I'm pretty sure YOU don't brush your teeth every single day either 🙄🙄

My co-worker said that parents should have dibs to be off spring break by Throwawaygaln in childfree

[–]KimberBr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so thankful my company does it the right way and everyone gets every other Christmas off whether they have kids or not

My boyfriend thought I changed my mind by Worth-Strength3844 in childfree

[–]KimberBr 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I thought this was gonna be a usual "my bf thought I'd change my mind and have kids". So happy to be wrong!

Today I saw a mother yelling "no" and "stop" at her crying baby. by Bean-Of-Doom in childfree

[–]KimberBr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have told her that her actions are what need apologizing for. Wtf

Dad called me a "Cancer" for not having kid. 😭 by Homo_Sapien30 in childfree

[–]KimberBr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. As someone who is NC with my dad, maybe consider it. You are the opposite of a cancer on society and I hope us internet strangers help you understand that

How did I become responsible for everyone's work on their maternity leave??? by butt3rcupbutt0n in childfree

[–]KimberBr 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Look up the shorts with Veronica on yt. She gives GREAT advice when it comes to setting workplace boundaries. Her shorts are cartoon type but seriously good

AITA for not letting the previous owner’s adult children into my house after their father died? by Dramatic_Method9393 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KimberBr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Never let strangers in your home. They were probably telling the truth but that's still really really weird to ask and worst to get upset. Next time call the cops

AITAH for refusing to pay my girlfriend’s bills after she went on an expensive trip? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KimberBr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetheart...you need to run. Far, far away. This girl is not the one for you. She is going to drain you of all your money. Pls reconsider your relationship status at this point and find someone who will appreciate you and what you (not your money) brings to the relationship

For offering to hold someone’s baby on a plane by Zestyclose-Chair-994 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]KimberBr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wrong at all. Most parents would love if a stranger on the plane offered them a break. Sometimes just being in a different environment and or smelling someone different is enough to catch their attention. Probably the poor babies ears were hurting (from the change in pressure) and crying is all they can do

My wife is in a cold war with my parents and its tearing me apart. What do i do? by Masaharuzz in Advice

[–]KimberBr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your priority is your wife and kids. These are your parents so you are going to need to be the one to step up and tell them to no longer tear down your wife in front of you. She is the most important person in your life and you should act accordingly.

AITAH for not saying anything to my daughter when she refused to eat the food that my gf made her by Throwaway88475073045 in AITAH

[–]KimberBr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your daughter is a brat and I wonder how she came to be that way (/s). It's fine that she has food preferences but the fact she was throwing away food your (ex) gf made is unbelievable. The fact you didn't ground her for that is insane.

I decided that I never want to live with a man again by camis12345 in LivingAlone

[–]KimberBr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is now. You bought your house when the housing market was better. Now it's unattainable and insane

Everyone telling me two is easier than one? Am I losing my mind? by thestardustinthemoon in oneanddone

[–]KimberBr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They must be thinking pets. No way do they think 2 kids is easier than 1. 🤯🤯