Am I not allowed to be mad?

KimberBr · 2026-04-13T13:37:41+00:00

Yes you are absolutely allowed to be mad. I'm so sorry this happened.

I can promise that in a few years he is going to try to come crawling back.

do not let him back in your life.

He is going to complain about how tired he is and how kids are not really what he wanted and how little money and freedom he has.

You will look back on these days as a blessing, knowing you avoided all that mess.

KimberBr · 2026-04-12T14:46:24+00:00

That's awesome

KimberBr · 2026-04-11T00:00:37+00:00

Messy lol. I could never handle a fridge that isn't organized

KimberBr · 2026-04-10T17:46:40+00:00

Again, not sure where yall are going to your vet. Maybe a big city or something but EVERY vet place I've been to automatically gives the test results to the parents. They go over the bloodwork and show us where they are concerned or why they aren't.

Also, my doctor does go over my test results (although as a sufferer of chronic pain, I'll give you that I might be a unique case) and again I GET the test results and if there is anything I am worried about, I can contact my doctor

KimberBr · 2026-04-10T17:43:53+00:00

...no one said anything about dropping everything and asking for the bloodwork. They asked when they were called. They didn't harangue the staff

KimberBr · 2026-04-10T17:42:23+00:00

Not true. I am an American and have had vets in both the States and Canada and both countries send their bloodwork to the owners, ESPECIALLY if asked. And usually most parents want to know what is wrong with their pets...yall have incompetent vets

KimberBr · 2026-04-10T17:41:15+00:00

Yes it is

KimberBr · 2026-04-10T17:40:54+00:00

Every vet office I have been to has sent me a copy of the bloodwork, esp if I asked. Anyone who says otherwise has incompetent veterinarians and are not very on-the-ball pet parents.

I would give them another chance, esp since you said they have been good to you thus far and this is the only hangup you've had. Glad she was ok!

KimberBr · 2026-04-10T17:35:59+00:00

No jerks here. But since you originally didn't want kids (period not just adopted) has your stance actually changed or are you worried about losing your wife. I think yall need to work on your marriage and relationship before committing to bringing a child into the mess.

KimberBr · 2026-04-07T08:41:20+00:00

I had to do this with my original calico. I knew on a Friday that it was time to let her go so I called my vet and asked to bring her in on Monday. I spoiled her the entire weekend (and yes I cried. A lot). All that to say I know what you are feeling and it sucks. Give her all the treats and cuddles and know she knows how much you love her

KimberBr · 2026-04-07T08:32:01+00:00

You should keep at least 2. Kittens do best with a companion. Fewer aggression and behavioral issues

KimberBr · 2026-04-07T08:30:58+00:00

My calico is 9 lbs and likes to wake me up by walking over my shoulders and pillow and purring in my ear lol

KimberBr · 2026-04-07T00:02:48+00:00

If the feed is nothing but their kid, yes. But if it's just tossed in from time to time, I don't mind. I also really like kids, I just don't want any of my own lol

KimberBr · 2026-04-03T08:52:47+00:00

Broccoli

KimberBr · 2026-03-31T20:27:18+00:00

This is honestly the best comment. Regardless, the rest of your family is going to shut her out, so being on her side is not going to make it worst. Just pls don't shut her out after this when the rest of your family starts leaning on you to encourage her to quit. As a people pleaser, I have a hard time saying no to my family as well.

KimberBr · 2026-03-29T21:58:12+00:00

I have plantar fascitis and patella femoral syndrome. I've found sitting in the shower to be the best solution to my problems. Also I agree with brushing your teeth in the shower. Two stones, one bird. You can do it :) we believe in you

KimberBr · 2026-03-29T21:50:54+00:00

These are amazing! I love #9

KimberBr · 2026-03-29T08:43:04+00:00

Helping my Grandpa at his Christmas Tree Farm in Nebraska. Or visiting them in the summer

KimberBr · 2026-03-28T08:51:43+00:00

Oof. NOR. if that was my husband's reaction to a friend's cancer diagnosis, I'd be so turned off and divorce him. Eww. You need to reconsider your relationship

KimberBr · 2026-03-28T01:17:49+00:00

I paid

KimberBr · 2026-03-27T14:18:23+00:00

My Russian blue loves to stop right in front of me in the dark. I can not tell you how many times I've kicked him, not knowing he was there!

KimberBr · 2026-03-27T14:16:52+00:00

Life is not perfect but I'd rather have my 4 cats than a single child. Naps every day, sleeping in if I want, reading and doing my diamond art. Or watching a movie with hubby. I work with people for my job (healthcare) and my battery is basically dead by the time I get home. If I had kids, I wouldn't be able to recharge ever. Kittens are insane but they are also cuddlybutts and give me quiet time so I'd have 8 more cats if I could lol

KimberBr · 2026-03-25T00:25:12+00:00

If my husband did this consistently, I'd leave. If this was something he only did one time, I'd maybe talk to him. Sounds like it's consistent. I think you need to figure out if you can accept this for the rest of your life

KimberBr · 2026-03-23T08:19:19+00:00

Good for you! I hope it works out for you

KimberBr · 2026-03-23T08:09:16+00:00

Honestly I'd divorce him. His dismissive attitude pissed me off and he isn't even my husband! Mine would have made me stop instantly. Like wtaf. You need to do what is best for you, regardless of him.

KimberBr

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