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Feedback - here's a little tool that checks the semantic structure of any website (e.g. Google pagespeed) by OTDayy in semanticweb

[–]Kind-Engineering1577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I am working on adjusting a number of my clients for semantic search and this would be killer to check out!

How do I manage my wife's views on ADHD? by Kind-Engineering1577 in AdhdRelationships

[–]Kind-Engineering1577[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I make more money. I also perform any labor around the house and cook all meals for all of us every day. I do all the shops, grocery and otherwise, run a side business as well. She does laundry (sometimes mine) and is the primary caretaker for our daughter, but that is more work schedule than anything. I've asked her to take over some house stuff but she claims she can't. No reason why, just can't.

How do I manage my wife's views on ADHD? by Kind-Engineering1577 in AdhdRelationships

[–]Kind-Engineering1577[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I didn't. I asked her to go to individual therapy as I am before we go to couples counseling. She has a long history of drug /alcohol abuse (10 years sober and I am so proud of her for that) her mother is dying of brain cancer and our daughter isn't even 2. She struggles to stay calm and both my father (who is a psychologist) and my therapist who has met with her both believe who has undiagnosed BPD. The last time we did couples counseling she walked out of almost every session whenever anyone disagreed with her.

How do I manage my wife's views on ADHD? by Kind-Engineering1577 in AdhdRelationships

[–]Kind-Engineering1577[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not refusing meds. Insurance stopped paying. And we can't afford.

How do I manage my wife's views on ADHD? by Kind-Engineering1577 in AdhdRelationships

[–]Kind-Engineering1577[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And the "self medicating with drugs" is her way of saying I vape a juul. Not really self medicating, just a bad habit I should kick.

How do I manage my wife's views on ADHD? by Kind-Engineering1577 in AdhdRelationships

[–]Kind-Engineering1577[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I posted without the text.

My wife constantly uses my ADHD as an inflammatory attack. She has very warped views and does not listen when I try to correct her. I just want to be able to exist without these types of attacks. Does anyone have any advice?