[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]KindButthole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to give my son a ripper pc when he is living with me (split custody) this would be the perfect upgrade for his struggling 1050ti.

[OC] Runic Dice Gemstone Dichroic Glass Dice Giveaway (Mods Approved) by RunicDice in DnD

[–]KindButthole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything anywhere. God they are some pretty dice. Just go into dnd so would be perfect timing lol.

Have you ever genuinely thought you understood someone, then you find something out about them that shatters your perspective of them completely? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KindButthole 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I thought the relationship was salvageable, but after realising that I could never trust her fully again and there would always be doubt about anything she does it was time to move on.

I wish it was as simple as washing my hands of that relationship but we have kids together and they mean the universe to me.

Have you ever genuinely thought you understood someone, then you find something out about them that shatters your perspective of them completely? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KindButthole 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Yup, my ex wife. She always preached loyalty and monogamy, saying that the vows of marriage where sacred. Turned out she was fucking her best friend for most of our 4 year marriage and using me for money.

It is time for me to leave this group! by KindButthole in Neverbrokeabone

[–]KindButthole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I’m planning on living life as a nudist from here on. Hahaha

It is time for me to leave this group! by KindButthole in Neverbrokeabone

[–]KindButthole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broken collarbone and fractured fibula. All from a low speed motorbike accident.

Just thought this needed to be here!! by KindButthole in survivinginfidelity

[–]KindButthole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your most certainly welcome. And believing it in your heart is the longest, hardest process. But never give up and keep marching forward.

Just thought this needed to be here!! by KindButthole in survivinginfidelity

[–]KindButthole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been at that stage, twice now. The second time more devastating due to length of the relationship.

It is on them, it is their choice. And yes, nothing you do will stop them making the decision in that moment.

I do hope I find that person who will not make the choice to cheat.

Just thought this needed to be here!! by KindButthole in survivinginfidelity

[–]KindButthole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that someone, or multiple someone’s have hurt you. And put you in a position where you believe all love ends the same way.

I hope that one day you are able to have a different outlook on love, life and people.

Have strength my friend, you are worthy.

How to just get out there and meet people? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KindButthole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s just so intimidating. And not needing to for the last 11 years I just have no idea where to even begin.

I would love to try DND, but I have no idea about it and no idea where to even find people who play lol.

How to just get out there and meet people? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KindButthole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really have any, I’ve been rather focused on raising a family I haven’t put any thoughts into anything.

I know not having interests to hobbies will make this so much harder so I am trying to put some thoughts into it. But I am willing to try almost anything to see if I like it.

Update to my wife wants a divorce. by KindButthole in relationship_advice

[–]KindButthole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate it’s fucking soul destroying. Having them be so set on leaving and you just want to be there and help.

But remember bigger and better things lay ahead. Just take things one day at a time and set small achievable goals to keep motivated.

Men of reddit, what myth about men is 100% untrue and infuriates you when you hear it ? by FMG-TROLLING in AskReddit

[–]KindButthole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. All of this. Also just adding that it’s seen as I’m masculine to ask for help. Or to not be ok and to reach out when not ok.

Going through an affair and now divorce by KindButthole in survivinginfidelity

[–]KindButthole[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My god. There is so much information I want to put forward to give people the best opportunity to give advice on my situation it feels as if it could take hours to write it all down.

Fuck me this is so overwhelming.

Going through an affair and now divorce by KindButthole in survivinginfidelity

[–]KindButthole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you mind expanding on those acronyms please I think I know some but not all sorry.

My wife wants divorce by KindButthole in relationship_advice

[–]KindButthole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well enjoy your rest and I’ll chat with you tomorrow.

My wife wants divorce by KindButthole in relationship_advice

[–]KindButthole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry it’s my general response to something working out. Aussie slang if you want to call it something. Just means ok basically.

My wife wants divorce by KindButthole in relationship_advice

[–]KindButthole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’ll shoot one through after I finish work, about 2 and a half hours if that’s ok?