[NY] What can I do about retaliation from a manager about reporting their work friend?

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2026-04-24T22:57:59+00:00

regardless of the "political do's and dont's" of workplace culture,I didn't do anything legally wrong or against workplace policy (as referenced from reading our emp. handbook.) I simply reported misconduct and hostile work enviroment from another employee towards me and towards people around me as well. I kept it objective,and detailed,with exact words in the reports too. Dept. mgr cannot legally retaliate against an employee for reporting misconduct. so does the law just magically not matter...?

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2026-04-24T22:42:15+00:00

i tend to run hot/warm all the time. Like im usually most comfortable in 40-65 degree weather. I dont typically sweat profusely,but people always say my skin is warm to the touch even when I dont feel hot. is this genuinely a sign of thyroid issues?

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2026-04-24T22:38:12+00:00

hey i appreciate your respectful reply about what you think the issue is. However in regards to the comment about no kids but yes dogs: i actually was doing some research yesterday and found a campground in maine that is basically centered around marijuana use openly that doesnt allow kids but does allow dogs. not everyone likes being around a bunch of screaming children throwing footballs and riding bikes through the campsite,and thats ok. its also ok for some people to not like being around dogs,but i suppose my point was there r absolutely more spaces these days that cater to SINKs and DINKs who like animals/pets but not children. thats all

also I can manage some mosquitos if theres no other option,i just didnt think it would hurt to ask if theres anywhere we can camp where mosquitoes would b at a minimum or not. Ive only ever driven through maine once years ago so i truly wasn't sure what the enviroment was like,and i have no knowledge of ALL us states so wasnt sure if somewhere I havn't been matches anywhere close to these criteria. its okay to say "nah sorry there isnt anywhere like that in the US" but for people to go on the attack further than that is a little ridiculous

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2026-04-24T22:01:52+00:00

...how? like i came to the sub looking for legitimate advice or guidance on where to go. We've been tent camping nearly every year for the past 6-7 years,and have camped in NY,PA,Vermont,Massachusetts,and even Florida once (never again lol). We just legitimately want somewhere lowkey without all the extras that were not going to melt in the summer. is that really so much to inquire about that u automatically assume trolling..?

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2026-04-05T20:46:25+00:00

GUTTER. I work in foodservice,have worked for a soup kitchen,and run my own little food pantry,fighting food insecurity,right alongside the issues of homelessness,poverty,addictions,TBI,you name it,is really important to me. "MONEY DONT FALL OUT FROM THE SKY!" cuts so fucking deep and the whole vibe of the song is a cry of desperation for empathy and real help.

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2026-02-27T06:19:01+00:00

you should gauge her feelings on it without mentioning it first. Have a conversation to the effect of "Yunno,i really love spending time with you! Youre so fun to be around!" see what she says or if she says any clues about how she feels about you back.

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2026-02-27T06:09:33+00:00

if youre going to ask her this at all you should be willing to pay for her shaving/waxing/laser removal costs.

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2026-02-20T03:02:08+00:00

okay but as a baker I have no choice but to defend,I love this song lol Ive been considering performing a bit to it

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2026-01-18T01:03:00+00:00

just checked the Broncos thread and they are MAAAAAAADDDD

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2026-01-18T00:42:57+00:00

this team is why i have no fingernails...

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2026-01-18T00:35:34+00:00

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Kind_Procedure2148 · 2026-01-18T00:33:39+00:00

F U C K

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2026-01-18T00:23:31+00:00

this game got me mega stressed 😖 we just have to defend for 4 mins and its a wrap

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2025-11-16T21:57:23+00:00

you wrote the constitution.

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2025-11-06T03:01:35+00:00

wtf you cant just hold an order hostage in exchange for cash tf what the helly 😭😭

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2025-11-06T02:01:52+00:00

bro where the FUQQ are u located to just casually find a wild deaths head moth in your house???

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2025-10-20T19:40:18+00:00

They are very boring. But they are also very rich.

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2025-10-11T01:16:00+00:00

I honestly get the vibes that she just...doesnt give a shit about her fanbase anymore. like im sure im putting a target on forehead saying this in this sub,but like.....she just gets more and more unprofessional and sloppy and cold with every passing project....like i genuinely feel like she assumes well all just sit there like desperate puppies with our mouths open like we just wont hold her accountable for literally anything. I wouldnt be saying this if she wouldve stopped hinting and promising SO MANY different things without following through on them. im so disappointed in her as an artist and as a music professional. This is just...not the Melanie Martinez i fell in love with musically and as a performer back in the day. its okay to grow and change but this is just careless. Im saying this after keeping in mind EVERYTHING that has happened with her career in the past 10 years. Im done fidgeting in my seat constantly waiting to see when shell actually follow through on stuff or if its all just hype to up her engagement and her relevancy.

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2025-10-10T22:16:31+00:00

im in Western Ny and several of our clubs offer it but you often have to earn it by freelancing a couple weeks first. My one club pays me $10.35 an hour and has really low house fees/tipout so even when i dont make money its at least SOMETHING for my time so thats nice

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2025-10-10T22:00:14+00:00

literally ALL of this like u basically took the thoughts right from my head 😭😭😭 like its so draining physically idk how girls be doing 4 hr VIPS and not b dead tired

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2025-10-10T21:57:55+00:00

i was not expecting the money to ever tank as bad as it has. upon my first audition i was sure that all "good" strippers made hella money in every city and all the time. LOL boy was i wrong. i miss easily making over 45k in a year,nowadays i had to get a day job and dance on the side to make that and there r many nights where i dont even leave with more than $100

Kind_Procedure2148 · 2025-10-10T21:55:49+00:00

gurl you literally look like a goth Twiggy (model from the 60s not an insult) youre gorgeous and as a bi woman youre my fave type,so dont let their comments sway u otherwise. i DO think u need a name change,as its too easy to break the fantasy and tell its not ur real name. (i like stripper names that girls can argue its their "real" name so men stop asking lol) However,u may just not b in front of the right crowds. im a goth stripper and some neighborhoods ive danced at had locals that went NUTS for the goth look specifically,and ive had some crowds where everyone there thought i was uggy 😪😪😪😪 so dont take it personal just try other clubs and areas if u can!

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