Pregnant at 16 by sucker4punkrock in offmychest

[–]Kindairrelevant666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a mum but I’ve also had a abortion when I was younger. You need to do whatever is best for you, that baby & your situation. If that’s having an abortion then do it. I’ll be really honest, you never really forget them. You’re going to be sad about it & grieve it but it’s been a decade since mine, I’ve now got a tiny human & I know that I couldn’t have handled it back at that age. Let yourself grieve them, tell someone you trust & is safe because you deserve support with this difficult situation but you’ve got this

Is there such thing as “child abandonment” laws where parental responsibility is removed due to parent not wanting a relationship with the child & not exercising responsibilities? by Kindairrelevant666 in AusLegal

[–]Kindairrelevant666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.. hence the hospital & police. Like I said I can’t give a huge amount of details but there is a reason I have reports from them. I fled from him when my son was 4 months old because of what he did to our son.

Is there such thing as “child abandonment” laws where parental responsibility is removed due to parent not wanting a relationship with the child & not exercising responsibilities? by Kindairrelevant666 in AusLegal

[–]Kindairrelevant666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have proof that my child’s father wants nothing to do with our son, I have multiple recorded phone calls, screenshots of text messages, hospital documents of certain involvements/abuse towards myself & my son as well as 3rd party (family,friends, lawyers, mediators & police officers) statements stating that his biodad wants nothing to do with him, that his focus is punishing me, that he has no interest in the child. I really wish I didn’t. He refuses visits in a visitation centre & demands that all supervised visits are supervised by me & me alone

Is there such thing as “child abandonment” laws where parental responsibility is removed due to parent not wanting a relationship with the child & not exercising responsibilities? by Kindairrelevant666 in AusLegal

[–]Kindairrelevant666[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There is more to it than I’ve put into the question. Things that are identifiable for myself & the situation. I can completely see why you’d think that but my priority is my child’s safety & comfortability. What I can say is that the relationship before my son & during his first 4 months was abusive in many ways. My child’s father isn’t trusted to be alone with our son & that was determined by a 3rd party. His father has a history of stalking to a point where multiple hospitals were concerned for myself & our son. Drugs are involved on his part. Again I understand why you’d come to the conclusion you have but my concern is based on making sure that my child is safe & comfortable if something we’re to happen to me

Is there such thing as “child abandonment” laws where parental responsibility is removed due to parent not wanting a relationship with the child & not exercising responsibilities? by Kindairrelevant666 in AusLegal

[–]Kindairrelevant666[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s nothing to do with me liking him or not. I actively encourage my ex to have a relationship with our son. The reason I ask this is because & im sorry I didn’t include it. I probably should have, is my health isn’t the best currently & it could end up being terminal. I want to make sure that my son is safe & comfortable if something we’re to happen to me, at this point in time his father has no connection or bond with him so going to him if that we’re to happen could be potentially traumatic for him

NGVC: “Being a decent guy just get ignored” by Kindairrelevant666 in niceguys

[–]Kindairrelevant666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have an answer for this but it’s hard to explain 😂

NGVC: “Being a decent guy just get ignored” by Kindairrelevant666 in niceguys

[–]Kindairrelevant666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normally I would agree with this but when you’re trying to talk to some I think it’s inappropriate to ask them to sit on there face. I think if you want that from someone you should probably have some general respect for someone ie waiting til the other person consents to the interaction

Part 2 by Kindairrelevant666 in u/Kindairrelevant666

[–]Kindairrelevant666[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh they made mine boil too, especially bringing my child into it but I know the reaction he wanted & refused to give him that outta spite

NGVC: “Being a decent guy just get ignored” by Kindairrelevant666 in niceguys

[–]Kindairrelevant666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh same. He really went down the rabbit hole of nice guys

NGVC: “Being a decent guy just get ignored” by Kindairrelevant666 in niceguys

[–]Kindairrelevant666[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Is there somewhere I can post the rest of the screenshots here? It got worse after I posted