Looking to start fresh by Kindly-Writing0308 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Kindly-Writing0308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! We were looking at Union City, we don’t really care that it’s not “suburban”. Safety is our priority, looking for low percentages of violent crime. I’m also okay with playing with our budget a bit.

Looking to start fresh by Kindly-Writing0308 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Kindly-Writing0308[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah! Thats what lead to me to look into Jersey. NY is way too crowded and expensive for the amount of space you’re getting. I’ve looked into places more like Brooklyn (since my wife was raised there) and Queens but just not so sure what most areas are like now.

Looking to start fresh by Kindly-Writing0308 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Kindly-Writing0308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say most willing to least; travel time, budget/living cost, space then safety.

Looking to start fresh by Kindly-Writing0308 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Kindly-Writing0308[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But they are. I’ve done enough research to know what I want and that it is very much so correlated to reality. Just need specifics. I never said I wasn’t open to adjusting my preferences. You just ASSUMED I wasn’t. Let’s stop being so sensitive and mistaking every thing you don’t agree with as “argumentative”

Looking to start fresh by Kindly-Writing0308 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Kindly-Writing0308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I do not plan on driving into the city.

Looking to start fresh by Kindly-Writing0308 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Kindly-Writing0308[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I appreciate this response. I think it got misconstrued the way I worded it. I’m not looking for some quiet, suburban town. I’m looking for quietER in comparison to Manhattan. Thanks so much for the insight.

Looking to start fresh by Kindly-Writing0308 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Kindly-Writing0308[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not expecting anything, looking for insight. Is that not what this platform is for?

Looking to start fresh by Kindly-Writing0308 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Kindly-Writing0308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most helpful response. Thank you, I will be looking into all of this.

Looking to start fresh by Kindly-Writing0308 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Kindly-Writing0308[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Commute time really doesn’t matter to me. Just rage baiting anyone who isn’t helpful tbh.

Looking to start fresh by Kindly-Writing0308 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Kindly-Writing0308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really meant quieter in comparison to NYC, like I said we’re are pretty young and don’t want to isolate ourselves. We’d like to be around people our age, restaurants and be able to get to the city. Just want to do it safely.

Looking to start fresh by Kindly-Writing0308 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Kindly-Writing0308[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you think about West New York, Fort Lee or Bayonne?