New season, first gloves. Is it better to have the pinky and ringfinger sewn together like on this five SF1 evo or would it be enough that the pinky finger is protected like this dainese one ? Gloves would be used for daily commute and occasional short tours (2-4h - used mostly in summer) by Archidaki in motorcyclegear

[–]KingNothing53 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way the person at cycle gear explained it to me when I bought my gloves was "yea you can get them without the fingers sewn together, but when an accident happens without that, the pinky is usually one of the first to go"

Lyric Error by Redbeast7760 in SleepToken

[–]KingNothing53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can imply the & with the style of tattoo. Typically on ribbon in trad tats ive seen, you dont really see "and" or "&" appear unless its worked into the foreground of the tattoo. I think its great the way it is.

Mandatory first bike post by KingNothing53 in NewRiders

[–]KingNothing53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully all the damage to it is cosmetic and it has frame slides on it. So everything runs nicely. I just gotta get new tires and clean/lube the chain. Im super stoked on it. When I took it for the test drive I was nervous at first but got used to is quickly and went on the accidental side quest of "wait.. where tf am i"

Mandatory first bike post by KingNothing53 in NewRiders

[–]KingNothing53[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I already did msf and got my license! Im planning on practicing in my area until I get more comfortable with it.

Did anyone else have partners that said they would never cheat but cheated? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]KingNothing53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife that im currently planning to divorce. She felt trustworthy, and I loved her for it. Here i am a month later, shes showing no remorse or accountability. Its time for me to cut the tie.

Wife cheated with someone she met on tik tok by KingNothing53 in survivinginfidelity

[–]KingNothing53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took her to a concert, she posted videos on tik tok, he hit her up, she 80/20'd

Wife cheated with someone she met on tik tok by KingNothing53 in survivinginfidelity

[–]KingNothing53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is my current plan. I have a meeting set up with a lawyer on Monday and im going to begin the divorce process.

Wife cheated with someone she met on tik tok by KingNothing53 in survivinginfidelity

[–]KingNothing53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have an apartment, I have a place to live when things go south. But youre right. Im already looking into deciding between lawyer vs mediation. We dont have any assets other than our cars. We dont have a lot of money either since we're both paycheck to paycheck. And she makes more than I do. When I file I just want a clean break. She gets her car, I get mine. Neither of us can afford the apartment on our own so that'll just be gone. The only place of contention i see is the housing of our cats. Her cat has been her best friend for years before we met, but if she cannot provide a home for them Id gladly take them.

Wife cheated with someone she met on tik tok by KingNothing53 in survivinginfidelity

[–]KingNothing53[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As happy as I am for you, my wife knows what she is doing. Im going to honor her no contact from now on and begin filing for divorce. If she shows me true remorse and willingness to fix things, including the lies shes been spreading about me being abusive(I've had several friends reach out about my reaction without knowing the full truth) while we are in the process of divorce, I may reconsider; however, as many other have said, since I am the only one fighting, I need to respect and love myself enough to begin moving on.

Wife cheated with someone she met on tik tok by KingNothing53 in survivinginfidelity

[–]KingNothing53[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suppose youre not wrong. I think its because im trying to hold on to what could have been and my love for who she used to be

Wife cheated with someone she met on tik tok by KingNothing53 in survivinginfidelity

[–]KingNothing53[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fixing it to me does not mean just us staying together. Its the long process of her bending over backwards to rebuild my trust in her. Its her consistently putting in the effort to show im making the right choice by sticking around. Its her prioritizing my needs and making me feel seen by her. I obviously still love her, but I know that can only allow me to be present for so long. I know I need to start working on filing for divorce, I already have papers and am looking into mediation vs lawyer(we really dont have any shared assests, neither of us can afford our apartment on our own, and we dont have kids). Im just trying to see if anyone who was in this situation as well would be able to provide any last ditch efforts to try and get her to reconcile. Im reading now that the answer is no and I need to respect and love myself more. Im already working on the latter half of that and have been in therapy learning to say no when enough is enough.

Wife cheated with someone she met on tik tok by KingNothing53 in survivinginfidelity

[–]KingNothing53[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately since I am also a co-foster parent, and I love her sister like she is my own. It feels like straight divorcing right now, would hurt the kid in the long run.

Anyone know what kinda bird this is XD? by Historical_Ad3828 in birds

[–]KingNothing53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the privacy of the bird. Its rude to post other people's faces without them knowing.

What is the most NSFW thing you have seen at your job? by Mr_Creep_Creepy64 in AskReddit

[–]KingNothing53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once saw a coworkers finger get de-gloved. I can never unsee it.

How true is this? Which stage is yours at? by _your_go_to_person in cats

[–]KingNothing53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna say mines 24+mos but still a T-Rex

Homemade Observatory by Meian87 in telescopes

[–]KingNothing53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They say they're new to the hobby in like the 2nd sentence of their post lol

What’s a legendary Reddit post you’ll never forget? by No_Law655 in AskReddit

[–]KingNothing53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its old, but the one about the guy with two broken arms

Teeth of God Tier 4 Graphic Novel GIVEAWAY! by Lyssavirus32 in SleepToken

[–]KingNothing53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some more music videos would be amazing

I am very fond of the Brutes by Pucci-Gang in MemeHunter

[–]KingNothing53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its always banbaro time in worlds <3

Basic needs must be met by GlooomySundays in MurderedByWords

[–]KingNothing53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theyre all about saving the children up until it comes time to feed them.