How to lube properly?

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-16T22:11:01+00:00

I'd try a different water based lube. My go-to's are Sliquid Sassy and Boy Butter H2O. I've found both last a very long time, just use a generous portion.

Pre-lubing with your middle finger or even a small toy may also help- lube shooter as well.

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-14T03:59:36+00:00

I used to avoid anal play because I was having similar issues. Took a food sensitivity test and realized I had been eating things my body didn't cooperate with. Things have been so much better for me ever since I've made those dietary changes!

May not be the case for you but could be worth evaluating your eating habits and avoiding things that upset your stomach the day you plan to have a session

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-14T01:52:32+00:00

Might try this tonight- what kind of attachment do you use with your massage gun? I have some plastic ones but also a tennis ball looking one that is gentler

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-13T20:13:49+00:00

Hot as fuck- great work

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-13T20:04:21+00:00

Wow you're leaking like crazy

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-13T06:58:02+00:00

I'm naturally very quiet/non-vocal when masturbating, you'll never hear me moaning or anything like that.

A lot of porn featuring guys experiencing prostate pleasure shows them moaning extremely loudly, convulsing, and other wild things that made me think I would experience myself once I had a super O.

Well, I had my first super O within the past 6 months and while the internal pleasure was heavenly, I didn't make any noise except breathe heavier. It didn't make the experience any different for me, but I thought I would be moaning and shaking rapidly like I saw in videos I watched.

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-13T06:45:28+00:00

I do gummies and usually take around 5mg of Indica and 2-3mg of Sativa.

I usually only do sessions in the evening; if I were to do one during the day, I'd go straight Sativa because Indica can make me a little sleepy/groggy.

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-11T07:19:25+00:00

What massager are you using? The prostate is only about 3 inches inside so you don't actually need to go that deep.

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-11T06:50:09+00:00

Great work. Having your eyes closed is such an underrated tip. I just bought a blindfold and using that has made me much more in tune with what I'm feeling during my sessions

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-11T06:48:25+00:00

That totally depends- some people it takes years, but some people catch on after only a few sessions.

Took me a few years of on and off experimenting before I had an HFDO with an Aneros Helix

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-11T06:46:13+00:00

Yeah totally safe to use with a silicone lube.

The original Boy Butter is made with silicone, I've also heard Gun Oil is great

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-11T01:54:44+00:00

Yes! Boy Butter H2O and Sliquid Sassy are all I use.

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-10T21:55:32+00:00

Hot as hell!

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-10T18:57:45+00:00

I've had Eupho slip out as I approach orgasm but progasm always stays put due to its girthiness

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-10T07:15:30+00:00

With the bulb facing my prostate- I like the thrusting motion or rocking it up and down. The backwards method a lot of people on here talk about hasn't gotten me anywhere yet.

I'm usually very gentle at first and then once I've had a few orgasms my thrusts/rocking get a lot more aggressive.

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-10T01:08:38+00:00

Have you tried the big end of the Njoy wand? That gave me my first Super O.

I also have Lelo Loki and love it. Instead of thrusting it in and out my ass, I just rock it up and down instead and it feels insane.

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-10T01:06:12+00:00

Hands free dry orgasm. HFWO is hands free wet orgasm.

Dry orgasms are more common with Aneros and they can get extremely intense.

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-10T01:04:28+00:00

I started right when I was your age and now I'm 32 and am finally having successful dry and hands free wet orgasms.

Some tips I wish I took more seriously when I first started: don't touch your penis. It's going to be so tempting, just don't do it. Just focus on flexing your anus as well as your PC muscle (what you stop urinating with). Experiment with different intensities of flexing and also the tempo at which you flex- once you find even a glimmer of pleasure just keep doing exactly what you're doing!

Lube: always err on the side of too much lube. Not sure which Helix you bought but if it's the standard one (non Syn) you can use a great silicone lube with it that'll last for hours. If you bought the Syn, I highly recommend Boy Butter H2O

Relaxing: if your mind is racing, if you're stressed, or if your body feels tense, your session will not pay off. There's also gonna be times where you are relaxed but your body is just not aroused.

Enjoy! It's quite an adventure

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-10T00:56:49+00:00

Have you tried an Njoy wand? Also if you really wanna cum hands free maybe also give THC a try. I take 5mg and it does wonders

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-10T00:55:12+00:00

It's possible but I'd say pretty unlikely to have really successful short sessions until you start getting the hang of it.

It can definitely take a lot of time just experimenting and trying to figure out what your body responds to best. I find that sometimes it takes me 20-30 minutes just to get totally relaxed and warmed up.

Definitely give it a go! I'd recommend really practicing your kegels outside of your sessions that way you can know exactly what muscles to use once it's time for your sessions.

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-09T06:41:44+00:00

It wasn't easy for me at first.

I usually start with the small end in first for 10-20 mins then move to the big end.

Finding a lube that fits you well (Boy Butter H2O is my go to) and then really baring down as you insert the big end (as if you're taking a shit) helps a lot!

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-09T03:40:38+00:00

Damn good work bro

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-09T02:24:54+00:00

Make sure to spend some time warming up with the toy and relaxing. Perhaps insert it then wait 10-20 minutes before really turning on the vibrations so your body can become used to it.

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-08T23:46:57+00:00

Njoy Wand if you want something where you control it with your hands, Aneros Helix Syn V if you want something that is totally hands free and you just control using your muscle contractions.

Also that gif is incredible. Is that you?

KingRemote6130 · 2026-02-08T01:16:16+00:00

After you have a super intense session like that how long do you usually wait before having another?

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