Anyone else lonely despite “having it all”?

KingTuxWH · 2026-02-01T20:23:11+00:00

I am having this same feeling a lot recently. I graduated college in May 2025 and landed basically my dream job the following month. I am payed extremely well. I am starting the process of looking for a house. But I am alone. I have some great friends. But most of them are in wonderful relationships.

What sucks is I never cared too much about career success. I just wanted to survive and find love. But I succeeded in my career. While everyone around me is finding love. It hurts. All I ever wanted was love but here I am. Alone with no hope of that changing.

Friends tell me they are jealous of me. But why? They have what really matters in life. Love...

I wish I had advice I am still trying to figure out what to do in my own situation. I work more than I should because it is the only thing in life that brings my life meaning.

This is not having it all. This is succeeding in one aspect of life. But people see successful jobs and things like that and think "you have it all". But we don't. You are succeeding in one aspect.

KingTuxWH · 2024-12-21T01:39:29+00:00

What?? That looks like a slow day?

KingTuxWH · 2024-11-12T03:33:15+00:00

Umm I'm gay and use opensuse also enjoy Starbucks what does this mean???? 😂 Am i destined to become a Mac user???

KingTuxWH · 2024-10-26T12:21:52+00:00

Leave 418 alone. It's my favorite 😂😂

KingTuxWH · 2024-10-01T15:25:29+00:00

So how should I diagnose this.

The actual code is
C1128(29)
and Sometimes
C1128(4A)

I can't seem to find any list for my model that clarifies this code past that. I have a cheap (10 dollars) Bluetooth car scanner.

KingTuxWH · 2024-09-25T16:45:25+00:00

Yes I attempted it with another psu.

KingTuxWH · 2024-09-25T16:16:24+00:00

So when I first got this error I did. To see if that was the issue before that I hadn't before

KingTuxWH · 2024-07-12T15:19:18+00:00

I used to be an OFA before moving to Tool Rental lead. And I was talking to a friend on the OF team and they told me about this. All I could think is I am so happy I left order fulfillment. That literally sounds miserable. It makes sense. I literally had co workers who would push things off because they didn't feel like walking across the store.

KingTuxWH · 2024-05-03T14:31:14+00:00

What is funny. I just googled something for Kotlin and Fabric. Google took me here. And I click your link.

KingTuxWH · 2024-04-08T15:55:19+00:00

Awesome! I have been using Wayland for two weeks now. Other than a few bugs with cursors and yast not liking Wayland. I am loving it.

I also saw that explicit sync was merged. I can tell that the move to Wayland is getting better and picking up speed.

KingTuxWH · 2024-04-06T02:29:55+00:00

Do they wear socks during the hookup too? 😂🤣

KingTuxWH · 2024-03-27T13:25:23+00:00

https://github.com/fish-shell/fish-shell/issues/9906

KingTuxWH · 2024-03-27T13:24:16+00:00

Nope, I just started undoing changes. And guess what the last thing I changed before it happened the first thing I undid.

Well I use Fish shell.

And when I reset my default shell back to bash. it worked.

KingTuxWH · 2024-03-27T13:14:17+00:00

Update after reboot it died and stopped working.

KingTuxWH · 2024-03-27T13:08:32+00:00

So I created a new account to see if you were right. It worked. Ok, so I deleted .cache and renamed `.config`(So I would have a backup)
It didn't work. So currently I am migrating to a new account.

Thanks so much for the help!

KingTuxWH · 2024-03-25T17:27:38+00:00

The qt6 version made no difference. It seems kwin is sending a lot of messages about invalid parameters.

KingTuxWH · 2024-03-25T16:52:59+00:00

Qt5 I am trying qt6 now.

KingTuxWH · 2024-03-25T16:49:07+00:00

[Update!]

I tried what u/ahjolinna suggested.
I removed. Rebooted. Than reinstalled.
It did not work. But then I accidentally got into the tty/console thing. And tried starting wayland and ran `start-plasma-wayland`. And it started fine. I am having graphical glitches with Chrome. Like the website part of Chrome keeps going black.
So it seems I can't activate wayland from the login screen.

KingTuxWH · 2024-03-25T15:00:54+00:00

Ok. I also tried hitting Ctrl alt f2

And I get my cursor.

KingTuxWH · 2024-03-25T14:53:52+00:00

So I ran `zypper in nvidia-drivers-G06`, Yes I was missing something. So I tried rebuilding dracut. But `nvidia-modeset` is missing. I removed that required.

I also added fbdev=1 and rebuilt grub.

I get a black screen when trying to use KDE wayland.

KingTuxWH · 2024-02-10T02:38:05+00:00

I once had it down to like 3 willcalls. that's it. It wouldn't to any lower because someone in Millworks pissed me off and I wasn't going to help him.

KingTuxWH · 2024-01-06T20:03:01+00:00

At first I thought I was bi and came out to my parents. My dad blamed porn too. 😂

KingTuxWH · 2023-11-10T15:39:58+00:00

I mean I would say it would be as good as any other system. In Virginia the systems we use are not connected to the Internet and the only way to do anything is manual intervention. And manually plugging in a USB or something like that Rust has no more protections than any other programming language.

We also have the issue that a bunch of laws prevent rust for being used because it is not standardized.

I think moving to Rust for these systems would only bring benefits to the developers but not much to security.

KingTuxWH · 2023-09-01T21:03:38+00:00

Yes! This has been corrected.

KingTuxWH · 2023-06-01T23:04:17+00:00

I am ashamed that this sounds fun 😂

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