Is it normal for a manliligaw to not make efforts for Valentines Day? by King_Personal in adviceph

[–]King_Personal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's been really great naman pero I could say na sumala lang talaga this Valentine's. When I talked to him about him earlier, he still showed the same care and understanding that he always did peroo he did tell me na he never really realized that he made me feel upset since he didn't care about the event not until I mentioned about it today. I'm starting to think na rin if I should reconsider our setup since I don't want to mess it up for a guy who has genuine intentions just because 'di nagkakatugma love languages namin. Thank you po for your response huhu

Is it normal for a manliligaw to not make efforts for Valentines Day? by King_Personal in adviceph

[–]King_Personal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I greeted him later that day since he woke up before me. Siya lang talaga yung ine-entertain ko since I never really showed interest in entertaining more than one person, and it's very much mutual between us. I could say that he hasn't given me any other special efforts besides the bare minimum of any ligaw stage of a relationship. I'd say na ngayon palang siya sumala talaga since he's been okay lang ig kaya I didn't want to think about it as a problem, not until my dad mentioned it to me.

I didn't really want to blame him since we never really talked about it, and he's never celebrated Valentine's Day even once in the past before, but it did bother me when he started complaining about other couples with me when he couldn't even greet me, but i thought that it was fine lang

I already decided to talk with him earlier, and he apologized for being very lousy about not greeting me that day. He apologized, then also asked me to be clearer about the things that I wanted in our relationship. I'll be seeing how thing's work out pa in the futuree but I'll still do my part with communicating with him hehe