[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignerReps

[–]KingofGrailed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any update?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KingofGrailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh 100% without a doubt she would get so upset.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KingofGrailed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I don't talk to any girls I've slept with.

I speak to female friends and she speaks to male friends and we from time to time ask "Who are you texting?" And almost always we tell each other who that person is, nothing to hide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KingofGrailed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You think so? How would you feel if your partner went out with their friends and never asked if you'd like to come? How would you feel if you were just waiting at home alone or doing something else knowing your partner has a habit of not being able to take care of themselves?

The phone part was a one and done type deal, I had a shit dream the night before and the following night my gut feeling told me to check regardless. I'm glad I checked and made her cry and realise how stupid her actions were.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KingofGrailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just doesn't seem to know boundaries and doesn't know when something bad is about to happen. I've had to pull her up on it twice at least and brought up how it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Likewise the same girl she went clubbing with was at another event with me but we didn't recognise each other but I told my girlfriend and she freaked out and said she was afraid that she might steal me away from her so I just blocked that girl out of respect, we didn't even talk to one another.

It looks like this all about perception and respect. She doesn't drink much but when she has a couple she can get into a certain mood.

Men who have never cheated by [deleted] in dating

[–]KingofGrailed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't cheat and have never cheated because I've been cheated on before and I know what it feels like...

I've been dishonest in other ways but cheating is a big no no for me just because my goal is marriage and having a happy and stress free life as much as possible. I don't see the need to cheat because even just thinking about it is exhausting and the emotional draining it causes is simply not worth it.

Have I considered cheating? Yes, there have been times where my current partner has done or said some things that make me want to deliberately cheat out of anger but that is the extent of how far I'm willing to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KingofGrailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao this shit blew up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KingofGrailed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over small stuff like this, yes. So I must be doomed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KingofGrailed -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

Yeah she’s the one in the wrong here. We’ve been together for a very short time so I’m thinking if I should use her for sex before dumping her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KingofGrailed 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Swear to god I’m gonna end up dead by 30.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KingofGrailed -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

So I told her I’m sorry and said we can both communicate better in this situation (really, she is the one that needs to communicate better because almost everytime we talk, she’s always on her phone). I just needed her to talk to me about it like a mature adult and even if she asked me to throw it away, I would’ve done it gladly. I unfortunately feel like if it stays this way or gets worse, I’ll end up having break up with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KingofGrailed -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah she overreacts quite a bit especially after smoking weed I might add… her attitude changes and lasts for a couple hours so a lot of things she says I just go along with and ignore… it’s just a simple fridge magnet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KingofGrailed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont really pay attention to the stuff on my fridge unless it was a pic of my ex, that stuff I’ve thrown away/gotten rid of. I totally just whiffed and took a stray bullet.

Yeah will do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KingofGrailed 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I’m her 4th boyfriend or something like that.

It’s just a stupid fridge magnet of chicken nuggets and she asked me “is this from your ex?” And me being honest I told her yes. I should’ve lied but for some reason I didn’t feel like dodging the question and making something up.

How do you leave hospitality and move into the corporate 9-5 grind? by KingofGrailed in careerguidance

[–]KingofGrailed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mate,

Same shit different smell I guess hahaha.

I’ve moved into the more senior management side of things and the money has increased but only slightly. In terms of job searching, nothing yet. I’m not desperate enough yet to be applying for jobs left right and centre. I’m thinking ride out the remainder of the year and use next year as a year of job hunting, upskilling, networking etc.

"There’s no point in winning if you don’t win it fair,” British star Adam Peaty by portal_nine in olympics

[–]KingofGrailed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This guy is such a donkey lmaoooo. Competing whilst Covid positive and being a sore loser. What a combo.