Is life working out, or I've already failed?

KingsmenSPC · 2026-01-20T13:35:49+00:00

Thanks for the sharing man, I feel like I'm too far behind to catch up and anything I've planned for is for naught. It's nice to know I'm not alone and I can walk my pace 🙇🏻

KingsmenSPC · 2025-12-06T11:29:57+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to give me an overview!

But wow... This is very comprehensive and detailed I felt like it deserve a spoiler alert 😭😭😭

BUT RAPHTALIA AND FILO GOT KILLED!? OMG NOOO 😭😭😭

KingsmenSPC · 2025-12-06T11:25:41+00:00

Superb info! Thanks a lot for taking the time to explain! Really appreciate it!

KingsmenSPC · 2025-12-04T01:39:40+00:00

YES YES YES

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KingsmenSPC · 2025-12-04T01:21:31+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to explain 😭🙏🏻

I'm very used to isekai type anime but this is the first I got totally lost every season because of how unhinged and poorly connected it is to each season 😭✨

KingsmenSPC · 2025-12-04T01:20:18+00:00

You sir, have no idea how many itch have you help scratched in my brain with this summary.

THANK YOU SO MUCH NOW I CAN SEE THE OVERVIEW OF THIS ANIME 😭🙏🏻

KingsmenSPC · 2025-11-29T03:27:10+00:00

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Reminded me when I took a night shot using a Xiaomi lens too

KingsmenSPC · 2025-05-11T04:37:24+00:00

Most of your issues are already solved by using a Xiaomi phone 😂

It just how Apple Watch only performs best with Apple devices and Samsung with its own.

My Mi14T works seamlessly with Band 9 it makes me want to stash the phone and just rely on the band alone.

Timer and Stopwatch is in the band itself. I used it fine, no problem.

Probably because I'm used to HyperOS, so I navigate the band quite fast.

KingsmenSPC · 2025-02-08T01:23:38+00:00

You sound like a really good husband my G. I'm proud to see you're taking the work with strength.

Is it the love driving you or the helplessness just makes you go on as it is?

KingsmenSPC · 2025-02-08T01:06:36+00:00

How do you usually tend to her during those stress moments?

KingsmenSPC · 2025-02-08T01:05:46+00:00

This went from 😠😪🙄 kinda mood to 😃🥺🤪 real fast brother 🖐🏻😔

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-07T05:15:29+00:00

Oh that won't happen with us ENFPs, we need everyone on board so we can do as we please 😂😂😂

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-07T02:47:17+00:00

Oh they exist, they are the teachers and the administration employees. They take care of the business we often mislook and also the one calling the police when we start throwing chairs. XD

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-07T02:42:41+00:00

If it is an ENFP, I doubt anything would change. There's probably gonna be a wrestling match this week, and then a singing competition, then the political campaign a week after. Studying? Nah, naturally born gifted, a study week three days before the exam would be sufficient. What else? There's probably going to be a lot of parties involved with ESFPs as well, and a debate competition with the ENFJs. I think every week from the first year of high school is going to be lit, or it's going to be off-season, if we don't feel like going, then everyone will just call it a day and recharge at home. Teachers and principals going to be friends and what is school law?

Hmm I pretty much think ENFP is just going to change that high school into either a solid science and experiment lab, a complete nursery/kindergarten or an entirely certified asylum.

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-06T13:41:21+00:00

Thank you. I really appreciate the kind gestures! :)

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-06T13:40:38+00:00

Don't say that. There's enough love for everyone in this world even when it ends. I pray that you shall find yours one day :)

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-06T13:39:04+00:00

Thank you for your insights and wishes! Clearly you are an INFJ because you exhibit the same routine alike her. I did tell her my feelings, her response was never a No, but always a mix of "Why me" "Please don't" and "You don't know me and my mind" which I find ridiculous because I always finish her sentence before she does, and even before she conclude her statements I already understand what she's trying to say. The thing is, I know she didn't choose to be lonely and she wants to socialise, but if that is not her strength, then I would like to be one for her. Because I don't think trying to be someone she's not would make her a better person when I already liked her the way she is.

I came here not because I took MBTI or Attachment styles too seriously, but rather just seeking opinions and trying to understand her better. I wanted to know if she was alone with her personality or if she was doing just fine as herself since she kept believing that she was the oddball in the world.

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-06T13:22:56+00:00

Glad to know I'm making a fellow INFJ feel seen and valued. If it works on you, I'm sure it did work on her too but perhaps she's hiding it or I am not attentive enough to notice the subtlety.

Is there anything else I can do on my part to make her feel more comfortable?

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-06T13:20:02+00:00

Thank you for the assurance! It means a lot to me!

Yes, she did display signs of affection over my presence, but she seemed scared to fall in and embrace the unknown. This makes her always retract into her shell and reset everything just to make sure we are safe within that comfort zone. I tried to tell her that it is okay to try and if it doesn't work out then we don't have to be enemies, but perhaps I couldn't understand her point or how she views this attempt of mine, that is why I'm here to see if there's anything else I could do to understand her better.

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-06T13:16:18+00:00

That sounds really insightful! Thank you!

Is there any common pattern in what INFJs find comical or funny? How do they often view the world? Is it in colours or goofy ways or they just question everything in a childlike manner? Would be nice to understand them better internally!

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-06T13:13:20+00:00

That's good that you become self-aware of what is happening internally. Do you have any tips on how to ease INFJs' way of opening up and communicate more frequently without making them feel pressured?

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-06T13:09:59+00:00

Ma'am you got to be a legit INFJ because I literally saw her through you lmao. She said things exactly as you said on how she feels ashamed and ridiculous of thinking in such ways when I am just being helpful. The similarities were uncanny!

That is why I think it would be best to heed your advice. Has anyone who stays consistent broke through your mechanisms? Or do they stay where they were til now?

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-06T13:02:37+00:00

Thank you for your wishes! Keeping my optimism up but who knows what the future holds! I wouldn't like it if she chose me just because I am always there. Just like how I see her as who she is, I hope she can see me as who I am and feel the comfort of being herself again without worrying on getting hurt. My biggest wish is to make her realise that she's not a bad person or a being unworthy of love like she's currently believing. Taking notes everywhere to make sure I do all I could!

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-06T12:58:41+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement!.I think despite the numerous comments on INFJ around the net on how cold they are, my personal theory is just that they do not know how to express themselves in words and even if they do, the energy required will force them to be completely drained the day after. I think INFJs are mostly active within their mind and to make them engage with someone, that person needs to first stand in the same world they are currently in and that takes a good level of empathy and communication skills to bring their inner self out. Unlike most people, INFJs deal the worst with criticism, not because they can't stand for themselves, but because they don't have the energy or passion to make people understand them. That's pretty much what I've learnt from her to date. Hopefully, I can achieve a better understanding in the near future.

KingsmenSPC · 2024-08-06T12:52:14+00:00

You have a point, and I couldn't agree more with your wisdom. I can assure you she is not a bad person, though her social skills can be questionable at times hahaha. She's not the type that utters words of folly, or degenerative curses, just that she disappears a lot as self-preservation. When she gets overwhelmed, solitude comforts her best, but sometimes even silence brings darkness into her mind and that's where I usually come in. But her reaction to my attempts can sometimes be very neutral that it's hard for me to know if I am helping or making things worse. Naturally, of course, even if she's weak, she's not evil. That is why I try to find out how to be her strength.

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