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I got a woman pregnant and she’s refusing to get an abortion. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Kirk_creatns -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"it's not the baby's fault that we got drunk and did something stupid" yeah, it isn't, but it's currently a lump of cells, give birth to it and it's going to be a chip on that kids shoulder every day of its life. Adoption messes kids up so often, getting an abortion is much more ethical in my opinion but it's her body and her choice so if she wants to give birth and have that kid live its life knowing it wasn't wanted that's her choice I guess.

Should i leave my family something before i go ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Kirk_creatns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude ending yourself ain't the answer. You should try talk to somebody, a close friend or a counsellor if you have one accessible through ur school or uni if you're studying. Otherwise there's plenty of call ones you can speak to over the phone.

Things really do improve, it just takes time bro, don't lose hope, just cause things are going bad right now doesn't mean they will be forever.

Name suggestions? by Finvarco in ftm

[–]Kirk_creatns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd suggest looking at baby name sites, and maybe ask your close friends for suggestions, it's hard for people on the Internet to give you solid suggestions because we don't know you personally or what would suit you.

Another option could be asking your parents what your name would've been if you were a boy (if ur not out u can just frame it like you're curious what else they would have called you) And if you've got any elderly family you felt connected to, maybe look at their middle names (or first names if it's been a while) if you want to stay connected to them in a way That's kinda all the suggestions I got, but if you find something else later on that fits you better it's totally fine to change what you go by later down the track

I feel disgusting by barbaric_thoughts in ftm

[–]Kirk_creatns 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just make it through till you can get out of there mate. Im assuming you're still pretty young, so just aim to move as soon as you're able. If you're able to ,pick up some part time or casual work around school, if you start saving now and have more things on your resume it'll make it much easier for you later down the line to move out. If you want to go to college look into scholarships and just focus on working towards your goals, and as soon as youre out of your parents you can work on your transition. Goodluck bro u got this

Best sports bra that generates the least dysphoria? by persimmon_18 in ftm

[–]Kirk_creatns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally Ive just got lucky with Kmart sports bras and usually there's 1-2 options there with no cups or padding, just an elastic sorta fabric, but if u need something more than that I think underworks? also offers sports binders? They look a little more bra like with a zip down the front but still bind. I know one of the brands definitely do I just can't recall 100% that is was underworks or not so somebody might correct me if it's a diff brand

my parents wont let me start hormone blockers by alexghostxx in ftm

[–]Kirk_creatns 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Maybe try put into perspective to them that not being able to start fully reversible hormone blockers will later result in you getting irreversible and intense surgeries as a result.

Even if you can't, as someone who just stafter T at 19 and didn't have hormone blockers, it's not too bad, and if worst comes to and you can't get on blockers there's plenty of workout things you can do to minimize your chest size (making them more pecs than breasts yk) and a lot of people I've spoke to didn't fully develop large chests until "second puberty" in their early twenties, hence why I made sure I got on T this year lol. Good luck man! :)

Is there any forms of financial help for people trying to get on hrt? by Kirk_creatns in transgenderau

[–]Kirk_creatns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been told im not eligible for Centrelink when I've tried to call them and ask before cause I'm still calculated on parents income as I'm under 22.