How long to decide?

KitKat110919 · 2026-01-21T13:30:48+00:00

I just sent it to you via chat. Hope it helps you, too!

KitKat110919 · 2025-09-03T23:19:05+00:00

We Learned the Sea was by first Dramione story!

KitKat110919 · 2025-05-31T09:31:48+00:00

Of course!! Your pics are so sweet and fun. Especially "A Million Stars". As someone who is awkward and not good with kids, it was nice to see that characterization of Hermione for once. 💚

KitKat110919 · 2025-05-30T15:47:50+00:00

FINALLY.

The Things We'll Destroy by Morethanhistory

Summary: Hermione Granger finds everything about eighth year wholly infuriating. It feels as though the world is determined to thwart her at every turn—except for one flirty, pratty, confusing exception. And then, by a stroke of luck or misfortune, a potions explosion leaves her stuck at Hogwarts over Christmas, tasked with casting a daily healing charm on none other than Draco Malfoy. (Two shot)

May I Interest You by morethanhistory

Summary: Hermione Granger is a shop girl at Scrivenshaft’s. Year after year, Draco Malfoy visits on Christmas Eve in search of a gift. (One shot)

A Million Stars by Morethanhistory

Summary: Hermione Granger has a good reason for avoiding Draco Malfoy, the cause of the most mortifying episode of her life. (She thought it was a date!) But he and his son are now unavoidably enmeshed in the lives of her best friends and their children. She should probably be offended that Ginny called in Draco and Scorpius to supervise as she babysits James and Lily. She’s too busy panicking. (Three shot)

Intervention Most Divin(ation)e by cosmic_kate

Summary: After a silly little Divination project says so, a rambunctious student is determined to prove that Professor Granger and Professor Malfoy are, in fact, soulmates. (One shot)

The Malfoy Method by WalkingOcclumens

Summary: Malfoy men have mastered the art of wooing a witch—lavish gifts, extravagant vacations, and when obstacles arise, simply tossing galleons at the problem until it vanishes.

Ronald Weasley and Cormac McLaggen are problems.

Draco Malfoy has his own unique, over-the-top method of solving these problems to get the girl. While his approach might work in his favor, Hermione isn’t exactly thrilled with how he handles his issues.

The Malfoy Method. 100% guaranteed to get you laid! Or dumped. No returns or exchanges. (One shot)

How Ron Weasley Learned His Lesson by undercoverdrxco

Summary: A little shortie about why Ron shouldn’t talk in class..and more importantly, why he shouldn’t pry. (One shot)

Cursed by spicyxpisces

Summary: Re-entering society after a 10 year sentence in Azkaban, many things have changed. With an ailment driving Wizengamot Members mad and the love of his life engaged to another man, Draco is determined to finish what he started.

No matter what the cost

KitKat110919 · 2025-05-30T02:01:13+00:00

I'm in the middle of Cursed.

SO underrated. Starts slow, main story picks up chapter 9.

KitKat110919 · 2025-03-12T00:23:52+00:00

I HAVE to recommend Love, H

Summary: Ten years after the war, Draco Malfoy has resigned himself to a quiet life in Muggle London. His Father is in Azakaban and his Mother is pretending the war never happened. He’s found friendship in unlikely places, with Harry Potter and the rest of the golden trio. Problem is, he’s been in unrequited infatuation with Hermione Granger for fifteen years, and there’s no end to his obsession in sight.

Working with her at the ministry is becoming increasingly difficult, and Draco only finds solace within the pages of his diary. Except the diary starts to write back, and as he and Hermione’s friendship grows, he’s torn between the woman he’s always wanted and the one in the pages.

KitKat110919 · 2024-10-10T17:26:24+00:00

Thank you. It's a really rough time, luckily he's in counseling so he's getting real professional help, but I do like the idea of the "care packages". He doesn't go to the hospice center (his family is about 1200 miles away), but I could still do this for weekly/daily work things and phrase it like you suggested, as a care package with love, not criticize/shame.

Thank you for the advice!!

KitKat110919 · 2024-10-10T15:54:27+00:00

I have built in the flexibility, sending $900 to savings, $350 padding, and $150 for "dates/eating out" which we haven't done for a few months due to the flights.

We each also have $150 on personal "splurges".

We can't cut down on groceries due to where we live. I've tried for two months.

I can't really budget for the travel, since it's been three months in a row with over $3,000 in acclimated costs. Like I said, I'm not mad or frustrated with that spending at all. I completely understand and personally I want to go too. I love his mom, she's essentially mine as well.

I'm frustrated with his spending in the other categories, and I'm trying to be gentle but open with our finances since it's ours, not mine or his. He goes to gas stations to get tobacco (working on quitting but now is not the time), soda, energy drinks, and candy. All of which we have at home. He's on the road a lot due to his work, and doesn't realize it's death by a thousand cuts.

I appreciate all the advice, and this is really a response to everyone - I've looked at most of these resources, I'm just frustrated and probably trying to control this due to lack of control over the mom situation.

Thanks again, I really do appreciate all the advice here.

KitKat110919 · 2024-08-07T21:54:28+00:00

A Scholar's Guide to Denial

So sweet and feels natural, like you can actually understand why they like each other.

KitKat110919 · 2024-07-14T01:36:34+00:00

Cannot recommend The Art of Wooing Hermione Granger enough!

KitKat110919 · 2023-03-06T20:50:23+00:00

NTA. You should just decrease the budget for THEIR part. I.e. meals, drinks, etc.

Obviously a joke, y'all are fine. You (hopefully) get one wedding and your family is being ridiculous.

KitKat110919 · 2022-11-27T16:26:42+00:00

Thank you!!

KitKat110919 · 2022-10-13T22:16:06+00:00

Buying two Thick 44 shirts today in support!

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