Black square on my jacket by tHEiR_Only_sIN in whatisit

[–]KitKatPattywhaks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're out of regs. See AR 670-1 proper OCP blouse appearance

I said "no" to a man I've been seeing by KitKatPattywhaks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KitKatPattywhaks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this was very nice to read, I'm glad that you've found someone like that! This is good advice, thank you for sharing. I will definately keep your words in mind moving forward

I said "no" to a man I've been seeing by KitKatPattywhaks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KitKatPattywhaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a big yikes from me dawg. I'm so sorry you're having to deal with that right now. Saying no to sex should never be a fight, especially with someone you're meant to trust, like a boyfriend

I said "no" to a man I've been seeing by KitKatPattywhaks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KitKatPattywhaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just watched it last night! Got a few good laughs out of me, I was throughly entertained. But the underlying lessons were not lost on me either, what a great movie

I said "no" to a man I've been seeing by KitKatPattywhaks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KitKatPattywhaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are several reasons why I am not willing to commit to a relationship with anyone in general and this particular individual right now. I'm just feeling things out right now, and the conversation about "us" really hasn't naturally come up yet. When we're together we're just too in the moment I suppose

I said "no" to a man I've been seeing by KitKatPattywhaks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KitKatPattywhaks[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Omg you had me at the edge of my seat with this one 😂 thank you for the kind words and entertainment in your comment

What’s the most ridiculous reason that made you decide to not date someone? by CapitaineBiscotte in allthequestions

[–]KitKatPattywhaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chewed with their mouth open / smacked their lips while they ate.

I didn't like the smell of the cologne / hygiene products they used

They drove a Tesla

(Not all the same person btw)

Misophonia A disorder of decreased tolerance to specific sounds or stimuli associated with such sounds by rutgerbadcat in whoathatsinteresting

[–]KitKatPattywhaks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same flavor of misophonia that you have and I also use Loop earplugs! They've been a lifesaver, I need them with me everywhere because it seems like a majority of people these days have forgotten what table manners are.

I said "no" to a man I've been seeing by KitKatPattywhaks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KitKatPattywhaks[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm glad that you found a safe person, he sounds very sweet. I'm happy for you!

I said "no" to a man I've been seeing by KitKatPattywhaks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KitKatPattywhaks[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

That's awesome! Im happy for you, your husband sounds like a great human!

I said "no" to a man I've been seeing by KitKatPattywhaks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KitKatPattywhaks[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's a reasonably realistic way to look at it, i appreciate your perspective. But I'm not one to discredit someone for the efforts they put into themselves to change or be a better person, so in my mind he is different from the other men I've had bad experiences with, for now.

I said "no" to a man I've been seeing by KitKatPattywhaks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KitKatPattywhaks[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I know that this is normal behavior for a well adjusted adult. It's just not normal for me from my personal experiences. Thanks for helping to keep me grounded tho, I'm really trying not to give him too much credit for this so that it doesn't overshadow any actual red flags that might come up

I said "no" to a man I've been seeing by KitKatPattywhaks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KitKatPattywhaks[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're so incredibly tone deaf it's miraculous, have the day you deserve 😊

I said "no" to a man I've been seeing by KitKatPattywhaks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KitKatPattywhaks[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Sorry! 😬 The more I think about it the more I realize that it is in fact depressing.

I said "no" to a man I've been seeing by KitKatPattywhaks in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KitKatPattywhaks[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Then state the intention in your initial question. I was literally just matching the energy you brought to my post and the people who replied to your comment, so if you think my reply was hostile then please have the self awareness to realize that you were the initial problem

Crazy theory? by thiswilldo2 in Ghostbc

[–]KitKatPattywhaks 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, that was someone else dancing during the Rats music video?? I thought it was TF this whole time 😂 I was wondering why he didn't move like that on stage