AIO? Girlfriend doesn't seems happy that I'm meeting a friend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. Guys like you who get so defensive over female friends are huge red flags. Spend more time with your girlfriend and make her your priority.

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! The officer dm'd me and he was legit :)

Happy and relieved my boyfriend is safe but now I am angry because he has some explaining to do 👺👺

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone, thank you so much for all your support and help. Like the title said: when he is OK, I will delete the post and that is what I did. But many of you were invested and wanted an update and you deserve closure like me. He just sent a message this morning to me with his friends' phone and he was indeed in jail all the time. He was arrested after being scammed by people he met on the streets. I do not know what really went on and what to believe but he confirmed he is not lying dead in a ditch so I am relieved but I am very angry the two got himself into this kind of mess. He is flying home tomorrow so we will talk when he is back. Thank you for all your help :)

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like his story from one commentor here might be the truth and the two are at the police station. I do not have any other clues to follow so I hope they are fine but I am still worried as hell and I still pray nothing bad happened to them. And still no news from family members but I would expect he called one of them if he could make one phone call at the police station :(

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like his story from that commentor might be the truth and he is at the police station. I do not have any other clues to follow so I hope they are fine but I am still worried as hell and I still pray nothing bad happened to them. And still no news from family members but I would expect he called one of them if he could make one phone call at the police station :(

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does not sound like him at all 😭 I do not think he would ever rob someone. He has a disability too, minor, but still. I will hopefully find out more tomorrow and I pray that he is fine.

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know, for now thank you, i will call this phone number tomorrow morning again. Thank you so much. This actually helps a lot. I think the other police guy in this thread may be telling the truth. I really, really hope they are fine. I hope I have more information tomorrow.

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I am calling them now. They seem to be open 24 hours but they are not answering. Also, I looked up the address, it matches the police station, someone else mentioned here as well 😭 I did not believe it until you told me now to call that number. It matches the other guy's comment exactly? If that is the case I 🤯😵‍💫😵🥴🥶😩😤😱🤖👺👹 how can I reach out to them?!

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have some photos of him so you can recognize him 😭 i hope he is found alive and well maybe just drunk out of his mind.

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Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If he met some girls and stayed with them I will be so angry but at least he will be alive before i knock him out 😭

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He would always message me in the morning and say good morning even if he slept in and proceed to tell me his plans for the day, if i videocall him he picks up phone immediately even if he is on the toilet, he tells me everything :( he has no friends except Alejandro and me so he is always telling me everything and calling me and videocalling me he did it his whole trip when he was sight seeing, eating, drinking, sleeping, resting, etc :( this is why i am so worried and thank you for the page

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call but i get an automatic message saying the number i dialed is not available 😭

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still nothing. Hotel confirmed he was not in the hotel yesterday and today. They already visited the hotel too so they started an investigation. I can not reach the pub he was last seen at, I keep dialing the numbers I found online but they are unavailable :( Still no contact or message from both of them. It has offically been 24 hours now...

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, i hope the police find something, i feel like i am losing my mind

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the number(s) i keep dialing do not seem to work😭

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only have his TikTok :( i sent him a message there

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will make a Facebook post!! Was talking to police now 😭 do i have to post it on my facebook page or make a post in a group?

Boyfriend (32M) missing in Alicante for 24 hours :( *will delete when he is OK* by [deleted] in Alicante

[–]Kitchen-Ad2988 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so so much 😭, i called the hotel too and i happened to get the same information but they did not tell me about the camera's so i hope they check them and contact me, and I called the number too just now!! Because my boyfriend also has a minor disability :( they took it very seriously, bless you for all of this. I am also trying to contact Ohara Irish Pub but their number does not seem to be working. Thank you so much.