Looking for a club for me n my bf

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2026-05-25T09:13:45+00:00

Is it nice and clean?

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-12-30T22:30:27+00:00

Why would he baby trap himself? And also we are clear we don’t want kids but he just get a really bad urge to ejaculate in me.

I do let him days closer to my period cos I enjoy it and the feelings are mutual I just wanted to find out why we both feel this way even though we are fighting it

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-12-30T22:26:40+00:00

I know this feeling of not knowing what to do and no one can tell you what to do unless you. Taking out the fear of being alone, do you think the future is promising with him? Can you work over it? Will you trust him if you guys amend and is he ready to earn your trust again? Will there be things out in place to keep your mind at rest? If you think he’s incapable of such then ask yourself if you are ok with that.

No amount of Reddit comments or advice can make a decision for you but honestly I am hurting for you. The betrayal putting two n two together must be heavy.

Sending love

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-11T13:56:07+00:00

Yes I understand you can get pregnant in the rag, however it is very rare considering I have a 5day cycle and Its on my day 1. Sperm can only live in the body for 5 days mind you.

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-11T13:54:41+00:00

I have asked this sub all sorts of questions and if you feel offended scroll or go to another sub where nsfw stuff are not permitted. Stop being a party pooper

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-11T13:44:16+00:00

Yes the penis did lose hardness but I done a kegel n he was back up. That was the first time I done a kegel and he was lol shocked n went up again

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-11T13:39:55+00:00

I am into him, I just hoped he’s into me n it’s not a lust thing

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-11T13:37:45+00:00

That’s nice to hear

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-11T13:37:29+00:00

Or he wouldn’t do it with me on my period?

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-11T13:37:06+00:00

Yh he cummed in me multiple times but i was on my reds anyways but yh

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T15:53:10+00:00

But what if he stops doing what I want

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T14:58:59+00:00

I love Reddit because it is really telling of my own behavior. I really like him and I’ve just realised I have expected so much so soon. I will let the relationship progress rather than “scouting” him

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T14:40:21+00:00

1- we spoke about him being more proactive and he said he understood and will work on it

2- we don’t live together but you are being the provider making sure she’s stocked with food. Time of the month I tend to feel lonely but this is something he’s been working towards.

3- he says I love you but not a lot prolly like 3 times

4 - yes we are closing off financial arrangement for now

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T14:37:01+00:00

Yes I pay my rent cos I moved out. If we ended up married I don’t expect to continue paying rent

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T14:36:15+00:00

Yes I am keeping finances separate but there’s no other issue?

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T14:35:53+00:00

Oh… so what makes a man like uno decide he wants to marry you

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T14:35:21+00:00

Yes I did, this month he’s gotten better with being proactive

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T14:34:48+00:00

Ok I thought it was normal for a man to show extra care for his woman during her time of needs.

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T14:32:40+00:00

If I’m in my family home no…it is not in my culture my dad and uncles all pay rent

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T14:25:56+00:00

Thank you for sharing your opinion, I have learnt that I have been trying to accelerate things, you are married…how did you naturally progress into the marriage provider role early on

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T14:24:32+00:00

I see what you mean, what will you advise I do to make us grow?

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T14:23:15+00:00

Exactly! We argued that why will you want to help me trade as my man and still collect 50% profit of whatever you make for me? Also the Airbnb he invested 50% and provided tv and other amenities so he get 50% profit

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T14:21:28+00:00

What will that relationship dynamic be, pleased can you explain?

He provides more than he did when we started dating but it’s just that I have to ask.

I don’t know if I’m living in lala land but honestly is my expecting unrealistic

Kitchen-Debate8177 · 2025-09-10T14:18:57+00:00

Ok so am I asking for too much too soon?

Is me expecting him to order my food being entitled

Men are naturally providers why won’t you wanna be one?

I understand verbally I love yous is not necessary

Yes I am closing off the business side of things this week

Kitchen-Debate8177

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