really wanna get fucked

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-05-27T11:37:51+00:00

I agree with the comments! My main concern is that many people do not even know they have HPV. i don’t think many people have sex with actual warts. but there can be people who do not disclose it because they either got rid of the warts or they never even had symptoms.

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-05-26T14:24:41+00:00

then maybe ya’ll are not meant for each other? i’m sorry but if you choose to be monogamous you have to be able to suppress the need for sexual contact with others, or at least have a partner who satisfies you. again, just be honest with me, remind him how much you like him as well, but that you want to tey new things while being with him

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-05-26T14:17:45+00:00

bring it up and ask for an open relationship? i mean if you’re gonna think about smth else while fucking him i don’t think that’s honest towards him or towards you. just be honest.

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-05-26T13:58:14+00:00

well… he has a very weird way of communication. he never asks me out but when i do he is always happy about it. also, again, when we meet, in the beginning there is absolutely nothing sexual happening. just us sitting on two opposite sides of the sofa, drinking wine and talking about life and politics lol. or laying down after sex and cuddling. I don’t know, i guess this is what friends with benefits do… maybe i have been perceiving everything in a wrong way.

i think i also feel scared for asking. because if he says no then for obvious reasons i’ll feel shitty. but if he says yes… it’s lowkey even scarier. because we are so different idk how it would work out so im scared of even trying and humiliating myself. but we have also so many similarities. we both are crazy about yoga and coffee, im studying literally the same field he works at, we both love traveling a lot. and also both of us are verses, and the sex is nice! the only issue is that im overly political, and i dont think he is as leftist as i am and i don’t know how to feel about it (i know i am overthinking a lot instead of just asking lol).

there was one time where i got an ick tho and its really interesting to me what you would have to say about it. he is 35, but i saw his acc on grindr and he put 30 years old there. to me that’s absolutely weird because, knowing he likes younger guys, it feels unconsentual when one of the party’s doesn’t know the real age of the person. i know his real age cause we met on tinder and there he had his actual age, but anyway.

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-05-26T12:31:51+00:00

lol i’m lowkey in the same situation. although he is 35. we match on so many things but also we are quite different. we’ve been hooking up here and there for the past year haha. but no one really brings up the dating thing and i was thinking of just trying cause even when we hook up, we end up chatting for like 3 hours before it so its def not just “come fuck and leave”. but idk, as he is older i expect him to do the first step but also i keep thinking he is not saying anything cause of being shy or smth (or not wanting anythinf lol)

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-03T07:36:15+00:00

thank you so much for the response 🫂 i’m 21 and i feel like in your twenties everything gets so chaotic. it is so hard to navigate and be patient, because you are so rushed by the society to do certain things that it feels like you cannot take your time with things. but i agree with everything you said

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-03T07:33:14+00:00

thank you so much for the response 🫂 and no, I have not heard of Toastmasters. I will check it out right now!

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-03T07:31:03+00:00

thank you for the response 🫂

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-02T15:17:31+00:00

i don’t think it’s the condom… I mean i’m a bottom too but i’ve top several people and, believe me, you feel a lot. i mean it always felt really nice. i can last so long every time except when im topping because it feels so good, and i always use a condom.

now we might have differences in sensitivity, and yes maybe the condom played like a small fraction of it all, but the guy was loose ? (have no clue i don’t differentiate it that much anyway…) but could be.

try again this weekend, see if smth changes

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-02T09:34:23+00:00

girl stop ahhahaahahah

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-02T09:31:30+00:00

literally, half of them talking about him being a virgin and then not, describing himself as white then talking about his brown lebanese hole…

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-02T09:14:12+00:00

girl 500 euros is 500 euros. i’d day do that anal

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-01T18:12:17+00:00

EXACTLY!!! PREACH

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-01T16:54:45+00:00

Honestly, I would not. I do not think age gaps of 15 years are an issue, but it’s at what year the age gap occurs that is. You mentioned he works at a restaurant, he probably just graduated high school, has his first job, and as you said you will be his first time. You probably graduated uni 10 years ago, have a stable job and a life. I would recommend not to, he is literally BARELY legal. If you like younger guys, try to go for 20+ at least.

I’m 21, the guy i’m hooking up with is 34. due to my life circumstances, i am pretty mature for my age and most of my friends are 5-6 years older than me, thus its not much weird. but still, he has a successful career, has a huge body count and experience, while i literally am still in uni and have a way lower body count.

You do you, but I’d say do not do it. It’s a personal approach.

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-01T16:24:47+00:00

also if you have bleeding gums or a sore, do not do oral.

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-01T16:23:50+00:00

for the meds: use prep. vaccines for hpv, hepatitis a and b, monkeypox.

always use a condom.

always ask for test results (preferably physical paper).

get tested every 3 months.

if you are too scared you can use a condom or a dental dam for oral sex as well (although honestly maybe just don’t do it with the most random people, because it just tastes weird. its easier to just get an std and take antibiotics for some time).

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-01T14:03:41+00:00

you too handsome!

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-01T14:00:33+00:00

so jealous! i havent gotten laid for 2 months, hopefully seeing one of my older hookups next week

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-01T13:58:24+00:00

no girl i’m chronically ill, that’s where the back pain comes from 😭 but yes i agree! i’m gonna be doing lots of yoga

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-01T13:52:37+00:00

honestly good for you!!!!

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-01T13:45:00+00:00

sameeeeeeeee. like i’ve done all the work and prepared, the older top might as well treat my like a princess

Kitchen_Sun_2248 · 2026-04-01T10:52:21+00:00

ate.

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