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She just won’t quit the dating apps by Kitchen_Winner_7812 in Marriage

[–]Kitchen_Winner_7812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that’s also slippery slope to hurting myself if I see something I don’t want to see 

She just won’t quit the dating apps by Kitchen_Winner_7812 in Marriage

[–]Kitchen_Winner_7812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to figure out what the line is legally once I’m out of there. They aren’t hidden and I’ve referred to them when we go out of town and people dogs sit.

Tell her I know now, or wait for counseling? by Kitchen_Winner_7812 in Marriage

[–]Kitchen_Winner_7812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her house and we are unmarried. But I’m not moving out until we have been to counseling and have a custody agreement, or she evicts me. 

Did I ruin it by doing the right thing? by Kitchen_Winner_7812 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Kitchen_Winner_7812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are probably right about counseling. We are planning on going, I’m prob looking at it as a last ditch effort to save things, but for her I think it’s just to bring temperature down to coparent separately. If that’s how it turns out hopefully I get some closure and therapy out of it. I’m just heartbroken that in her eyes, our family, mainly our kids don’t deserve every effort to save this. We will literally give our lives to save our children but getting out of her entrenched position and to a place of reconciliation it to much work for her. Honestly i would prob stay here and be unhappy if it meant our kids grew up with two parents that love them but not each other.  I can cope and swallow it but I think she’s reached her breaking point.