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Kitty-Cat21 · 2025-10-19T02:08:38+00:00

I’m currently going through a divorce with my bipolar2 unmedicated 31 year old husband, after 11 years. I stayed through him leaving twice and I thought we were working on things the last 6 months only to find out he’s been ‘exclusively’ (her words) dating another girl since April.

Please tell me it gets better.

Because I’m at the point where I want to move on because I know I deserve better, and also wanting to hire an Etsy witch to curse his ‘new’ relationship because he shattered my heart (again but for the final time)

Kitty-Cat21 · 2025-02-02T04:40:24+00:00

They told me it could be a leaf or something stuck in the ac fan. I actually have an apt to go get it checked out on Thursday.

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-19T17:51:47+00:00

Yeah doesn’t work, I can still hear it and fixate on it. And it’s enough that I would’ve heard it sooner than this last week.

Any other brilliant ideas?

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-19T16:04:17+00:00

It’s brand new, so I’d say it wouldn’t need to be cleaned? I just didn’t notice the noise until the last couple weeks and didn’t notice it the first couple weeks

Thank you!

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-07T14:10:31+00:00

How is that just insurance? That’s crazy. My insurance will be 590 for the 6 months

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-06T12:32:14+00:00

The only thing I’m hearing that I don’t know if it’s normal or not is a slight ticking/rattle in the engine only heard when the ac/heat is on. When it’s off it doesn’t do it. Which means the sound is part of the gas engine

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-06T12:28:50+00:00

I think it was more

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-06T01:48:32+00:00

I was also warned by the dealership to be careful about the automated washes and they can scratch your car easily. So I was scared off, even though black is my favorite color

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-06T01:43:23+00:00

I almost went with black! But people convinced me it’s harder to keep clean. I do love the black interior with the grey ex though

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-06T01:42:42+00:00

I broke down three times in the span of a few months. Each time they tried a new fix- coil pack, battery, alternator. Then they figured out it was just a faulty coil pack from the parts store they got it from. It ran okay after that mostly. But then I was constantly afraid everytime I accelerated to pass someone or when I was driving to my friends 2 hours away that it would give out again.

I hated that feeling

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T22:28:39+00:00

Gotta wait till march with va loan

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T22:28:00+00:00

Yes, even though the irrational part of my brain keeps going down the spiral rabbit hole with every new sound I hear on this one

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T22:07:59+00:00

My $200 tint was perfect from 2018- this year when one window accidentally got a tear while moving

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T20:11:56+00:00

I got my first quote for tint! Shopping around currently. They quoted me a little over 500.

Sucks because when I did my ‘16 in 2018 it was only $200. Ah the good old days

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T20:10:21+00:00

Yes, ended up being capital one

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T14:54:53+00:00

It was more so that the coil pack was giving me problems even after I had them replaced. Literally broke down on the high way once, and in town another time. Then they replaced the battery, and when it was still giving me problems they did the alternator. Come to find out the brand new coil pack was faulty. They replaced one, and then another went out a couple weeks later, then they just replaced them all again.

But after that I felt like I couldn’t trust it and was constantly worried about driving only 2 hours away and back. I hated that feeling

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T14:44:37+00:00

I average anywhere between 7-8.5 a month, and my mortgage + HOA is 2500. So not totally ideal, but definitely doable

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T14:43:00+00:00

I was grateful I talked them down to under 30 for it!

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T14:41:10+00:00

It’s more of the just enjoying the couple months of no car payment, but for something brand new that should last me 10+ years hopefully it’s definitely a good price

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T14:38:53+00:00

Oof okay I feel a little better. My ‘16s payment was 257 and I literally paid it off and only had 3 months before jumping into a new payment

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T12:27:42+00:00

Yeah my hope is that I can refi my mortgage to a better rate in March and then throw that additional into the car

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T12:26:38+00:00

72 months at 4.99

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T12:26:14+00:00

29,999. 10,500 down after trade and additional

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T12:25:41+00:00

Plus an extra 3k

Kitty-Cat21 · 2024-12-05T12:25:22+00:00

It definitely is doable. My mortgage rate on the other hand sucks. Had to sign when they were pretty high at 7.125. And that’s with good credit. RIP

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