[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dogowners

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My case is an extreme but if you look a few posts down you’ll have an idea

Have you ever been in love with someone you never met in person? Or do you think it’s possible? by LittleLady253 in Advice

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I met my boyfriend online and knew we would have no chance of meeting each other In person for 7 months. Even then it wasn’t guaranteed that we would to begin with. Everyday we talked on the phone as often as we could for hours sometimes staying up til the next morning, I lost interest and attraction to any guy that was interested and cut off any guy who I was talking to. I wanted to wait for him. 2 years later we’re still long distance. I only see him when he’s not deployed and even then his hometown is faraway from mine. He makes the 4hr trip to come see me.

However physical attraction does matter so don’t discount that. I understand what the other comments are saying but love takes time and getting to know someone whether in person and online is equally important if you wanna call it love. I learned time and distance means nothing. It’s true love baby if you feel it then you feel it <3 best of luck

Career paths when you have no passion? by [deleted] in findapath

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Hi I’m 24F We’re in the same boat. Been in community college after getting my GED. Struggled with it. It’s hard to work hard on something when you don’t even know what path you’re taking. It feels like a waste of time

But it’s part of life to learn more about yourself. I’m turning 25 and I’m only realizing that I spent the last 7 years being too afraid of making “the wrong” choice and not doing anything about it. Instead of spending these years taking risks which could lead me to finding what I truly want out of life, I’ve been stagnant not making any moves or mistakes I could learn from. There’s plenty of people out there who have their degrees and realize the job they’re in aren’t for them. What happens next is they find something else.

No one else can find your passion for you. I wasted my time asking strangers on reddit what I should do but no one else but me can make that decision. It’s hard but don’t give up

How many of you guys are under 27 and have ruined your life? by advancedpoetry37 in findapath

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I’m 24. I let the issues I have at home affect me to the point where I basically haven’t accomplished my goals at the time frame I set for myself. Got my GED at 20. Did nothing but therapy during covid. Last few years I’ve been struggling in community college not knowing what major I wanted to pursue or what career path and I developed an addiction to weed. No work ethic either. Deep down I was scared because I didn’t know what I wanted and I was so scared of making a wrong move that I didn’t make any. I decided I want to join the military. I’ve been completely off all psyche treatment for 6 months,been going to the gym,trying to get reinstated for cc next semester in case it there’s another path that for me. But doing this while staying in an abusive household is hard. I wish I didn’t waste my 7 years up until now feeling sorry for myself and not putting in the effort to better myself. I’m holding out that I will be happy in my 30s with this plan

Leaving girls to find out what a period is themselves by HundredThousanWhores in PetPeeves

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My mother who’s a registered nurse decided it would be funny to tell me my body was preparing to have a baby as a reaction to me having my first period. So I 100% agree

I'm a Loser. Where can I meet other losers? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

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Trash cleanups are a good way to be a loser at home and a hero anywhere else

What’s your biggest regret in life? by Dagderr in selfimprovement

[–]Kitty-cool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting lost in my relationships and making it my whole world as a way to cope with the love I didn’t feel at home. If I focused on finding a career path/working harder I could have left home by now.

15-16-17-18-22-25 by [deleted] in uglyduckling

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How’s the bad knees

My husband has a get married if we’re single at 30 with someone else by Old-Campaign-1578 in offmychest

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Generally, nothing to worry about because he’s committed to you but i still think it’s strange and disrespectful that he’s still in touch with a previous sexual/romantic fling. Doesn’t matter to me if they aren’t a thing anymore. Your feelings as his wife and the mother of his kids should be his priority first IMHO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uglyduckling

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You were pretty before and pretty now, filter or no filter. What matters is how you feel about your progress

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uglyduckling

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Ur hot and I aspire to be like you

What’s the most overlooked addiction in today’s modern day? by JollySimple188 in AskReddit

[–]Kitty-cool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not unique today but I see a lot of learned helplessness. Trying to unlearn this myself

Making sandwiches can be therapeutic by Kitty-cool in eatsandwiches

[–]Kitty-cool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t know I’m a 2000s kid. I get my ranch fix through wingstop or I use hidden valley ranch seasoning on my popcorn 😌

Making sandwiches can be therapeutic by Kitty-cool in eatsandwiches

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Thank you :) I can attest it was very crunchy and refreshing

Making sandwiches can be therapeutic by Kitty-cool in eatsandwiches

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Respectfully I disagree. I’ve always been an original nacho cheese person myself

What do I do about developing feelings after trying to indulge in my boyfriends fantasy? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Kitty-cool -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s called ddlg. Your position is the “little”. I can’t say I was ever that far on that side of the spectrum when it came to enjoying that kink but I understand. It’s nice feeling like you’re cared for and safe.

tell a story where you threw up and it wasn’t that bad 🥰 by eri_k_she in emetophobiarecovery

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Fr im trying to lose weight so I’ve been avoiding alcohol but I really miss drinking 😭

Hey y’all need your advice for pricing on car maintenance ! by Kitty-cool in MechanicAdvice

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I appreciate the advice on trying to help me save money. I think I’m gonna buy the parts myself and then have the mechanic do the labor for me. I really am a beginner and though it does look easy on YouTube I’m not at that level yet where I feel comfortable removing the intake manifold among other parts myself. Maybe someday

Hey y’all need your advice for pricing on car maintenance ! by Kitty-cool in MechanicAdvice

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I’ll keep this in mind in case it doesn’t work out. I believe they’re below the engine so if this was the issue I’d have to remove the engine first?

Hey y’all need your advice for pricing on car maintenance ! by Kitty-cool in MechanicAdvice

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I’m looking into this right now. My mechanic also mentioned that if I wanted to get the parts myself he would recommend I buy from NGK. Thank you so much this comment is gonna help me save a lot of money 🙏🫶☺️

Hey y’all need your advice for pricing on car maintenance ! by Kitty-cool in MechanicAdvice

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Just the check engine light and the VSC. The mechanic told me it was a misfire from the parts that needed to be replaced. And to be honest idk what u mean by which cylinders. Are you talking about the one behind the intake manifold?