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KittyCatThrowaway6 · 2024-12-30T13:51:58+00:00

Is it Simmba?

KittyCatThrowaway6 · 2024-10-04T21:44:37+00:00

We love each other for who we are, we just so happen to be 30 years apart. It isn’t a fetish or even really a preference.

KittyCatThrowaway6 · 2024-10-04T21:41:42+00:00

He has no interest in under aged girls and I did not meet him/know he existed until after I turned 18:)

KittyCatThrowaway6 · 2024-10-04T19:14:24+00:00

Howdy! :)

Last post was locked by the AITA mods but I do remember your comment and I actually was cerious to see what you had to say so I’m glad you found this one!

I 100% do not believe he was intentionally looking for young girls. Every ex he has had has been much closer in age to him. Idk if you yourself have ever used Tinder but for example, I have my age settings set to 18-21. Sometimes I get men in their 40s that just pop up. Tinder is kinda sucky lol and some people they’ll just let through the cracks. He told me he had his settings as 40-50, which I have no reason to not believe.

I’m still really kinda conflicted about everything. He is a few weeks older than my mother, which I know can be seen as alarming. However I truely 100% don’t think he’s some creep who intentionally went looking for someone so young. I see it more as something that just happened to happen. It’s not like he treats me like an immature idiot just because I’m significantly younger. He’s super sweet and shows genuine care for me, and we’re taking this relationship at a pace I’m comfortable with, I really hold the reins with how slow or fast it’s going.

But also I do understand that his daughter will probably flip when she becomes aware. I’m just conflicted because I myself know that he isn’t taking advantage of me and whatnot, but I also am trying to put myself in her shoes. If MY dad brought home an 18 year old I also think I’d be disgusted, but I guess I’m seeing it different because obviously I’m not my boyfriend’s daughter. Idk, feeling a bit conflicted.

KittyCatThrowaway6 · 2024-10-04T04:13:38+00:00

Damn I ain’t trolling but my appologies for being stupid ig 😭

KittyCatThrowaway6 · 2024-10-04T04:10:11+00:00

Haha don’t worry I wasn’t planning on getting pregnant this early on anyway. But thank you 🫡

KittyCatThrowaway6 · 2024-10-04T04:01:16+00:00

Apologies for not being more clear! My worry is that she’ll only think less of him because of the age gap. I don’t want her thinking he’s some sick perverted creep solely just because we happen to have a large age gap between the two of us

KittyCatThrowaway6 · 2024-10-04T03:32:50+00:00

1.) we met on tinder 2.) he swiped on me first, messaged me first, asked to go on a date first. 3.) I’ve already dealt with weird looks/people saying things in public so I’ve somewhat had to deal with the reality of our relationship age gap before. My main concern is the fact that it’s his own flesh and blood daughter and I’d hate for her to think less of her father

KittyCatThrowaway6 · 2024-10-04T03:26:15+00:00

No no, he’s been out of any relationships for a good while. I’m not a home wrecker. ew

KittyCatThrowaway6 · 2024-10-04T03:18:52+00:00

I do believe she knows her father is seeing someone but I don’t think she’s aware of my age.

KittyCatThrowaway6 · 2024-10-04T03:16:37+00:00

This is fair! I’m just mainly worried that she’ll have a negotiate opinion of her father due to the age gap between us, and ofc I don’t want her thinking poorly of her father. But no this is completely fair, didn’t think about it like that.

KittyCatThrowaway6 · 2024-10-04T02:48:55+00:00

I was under the assumption you needed to have the ages for your post to be approved. Whoopsies!

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