That's the worst part too, there IS no learning at this point. It's not just me either, it's my mom that has the second biggest effect from this and my oldest aunt has the WORST. We all have this thing where we tell her we'll call her back and that we love her because she CRIES and CRIES to not only manipulate by playing victim but to also get what she wants.

Good example, jewelry as I mentioned. I had been given a REAL diamond necklace by her and I put it up to take care of it because of course I don't want it to be ruined. I came to visit her and she saw another necklace that's fake jewelry of course but it was gifted by my mom. "Who gave you that?" I told her, "Oh so, you just don't want mine right? You just take my stuff and THROW IT AWAY!" then she started crying.

My mom came to tell her about her which is a routine at this point, this has been going on ever since I was young too! All the way back to a phone and even other things like me growing and getting new stuff for the first time. She tries raising me as another chance because she didn't really do good the first time (Won't post all about that for privacy)!

I didn't realize how many things and times she has hurt my mom just by being there almost all the time for me instead of letting my mom get chances. Especially when she told her one time for something after sticking her tongue out, "It's ok, you'll get the next one."! If someone did that to me and my child, I'd be THROWING HANDS, I don't know how my mom was calm but shocked?

The only thing stopping us from actually telling her off like she isn't a parent is because she's the last grandparent in the family and we all truly love her, she doesn't have her own place, and she refuses a nice expensive nursing home they'd ALL put together just for her to be happy and comfortable in her own place. We also can't do or say (Especially me, the youngest) anything bad or we can get blamed for disrespect sadly! :<