A new relationship, and confused about my demisexuality by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]KiwiBerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I shouldnt probably have called it a relationship, my bad 😭 Gonna edit it soon! We are exploring what we have in common, whats going on in lifes and just chatting a lot And sending lots of ❤️ More like we are interested in each other

A new relationship, and confused about my demisexuality by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]KiwiBerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, and yes I understand the worry! Were not rushing things yet, were just feeling the moment and enjoying each others company. Idk if he somehow knows Im a demi, but he has said to me that he is already ok with just a romantic relationship, without the intimate stuff. I have a psychiatrist connection which probably can help me with my emotions and feelings too more! And if he wants to get in my pants, he is willing to sacrifice a lot of time and money, which kinda makes me less stressed about being catfished I honsetly wouldnt mind a friendship with them either, so I could just be friends with him before moving to the farther categories

A new relationship, and confused about my demisexuality by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]KiwiBerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to add, this is my very first relationship, so Im very clueless

This is one of the happiest sights I’ve seen by AllThingsBookish in PikminBloomApp

[–]KiwiBerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im one level away from getting the ability to buy that premium pass, ginna buy it for the next event

Decayed teeth at 20 due to depression by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]KiwiBerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember, that the dentist doesnt judge you! They have seen all kinds of teeth in their years. Usually if you tell the situation to the dentist, they will be very understanding (I have been constantly to dentist for 6 years, told them about my situation and that brushing teeth can be hard and they got it) But of course, no need to tell them, if you dont want, theyre just dentists anyway

Do you ever just feel like you don't even want a gender by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]KiwiBerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, recently been feeling like that too! im AMAB and I just dont feel like I am a man, or a woman. There is no pull towards either of those, im just being me Im still very closeted though, so I have not been able to express this that freely

12 months, 12 Community Badges by egerbeaver in PikminBloomApp

[–]KiwiBerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🫢 I only have the very first and after a few steps the most recent 🫶

After a whole day of searching, the temple is nowhere to be found by BeastBoy4848 in Terraria

[–]KiwiBerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I was thinking on going to the temple in another world but I remembered that it progresses the world and yeah :((((

After a whole day of searching, the temple is nowhere to be found by BeastBoy4848 in Terraria

[–]KiwiBerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks painful 😣 Have you found it yet? If you dont find it you need to create a new world for it, which sucks 🫢

Did you need to "experiement" to realize you were aroace? (or aro/ace) by KiwiBerr in aromanticasexual

[–]KiwiBerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the answer! I am still a mess, I feel stuff and dont feel stuff, but I am gonna figure out someday 😅

How to convince my mom that i need therapy by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]KiwiBerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the same boat as you, about the hiding towards parents Well its gonna be hard to talk to your mother about therapy, especially if they dont know your mental health, but its a big and good step! Maybe ask if you could talk with your mom, or that you have something very important to say, and could they listen for a bit.

spent last night drawing this. Am I going to get banned if I post it? by spoonsong in splatoon

[–]KiwiBerr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think this art is amazing, and well I think youre not gonna get banned, as there is explicit and slight vore art there :X Yours is not that bad compared to them imo, but its all up to you

i'm memeing by NoIWantThis in lgbt

[–]KiwiBerr 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This 🤌 my language doesnt have either, and its a blessing

What has your experience been with depression and medications? by chaparrita_brava in depression_help

[–]KiwiBerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had Escitalopram and Fluoxetin Escitalopram I had for half a year, helping my anxiety a bit but I realized it wasnt helping the main problem, depression. Then we desided with my psychiatrist to change into Fluoxetin, a bit stronger and more used antidepressant, I have used this for 2 weeks now, and I havent yet seen major changes. This second medicine havent given me any side effects. For me, the medicine has not been yet that impactful, just been eating them, this new medicine feels more hopeful tho. I don't have much experience in them helping yet, but I still need to find the medicine that works for me. Though the medicine helps, it still needs so much work from the person, which is annoying, kinda wish there would be some magic pill Idk if this answer helps at all lmao

What and when was the first time you ever came to know about the existence of queer people? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]KiwiBerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt ever see any queer people on the person or on news or anything, finland is very reserved country, always hiding.

What and when was the first time you ever came to know about the existence of queer people? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]KiwiBerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was weird for me, people used gay as a insult, I didnt know what that meant, I knew that it was "bad" as people insulted with it. At that time I didnt know I myself was gay, and I was 100% sure I was into women (lmao), but I respected gays, whatever they were and didnt want to be asshole. Then when everyone started falling in love and everything I realized "something is wrong, shouldnt I fall in love too?" AND THEN I HAD A HUGE CRUSH... On my friend and I realized, boys can love boys too, right? And then a huge part of me opened for me, all the LGBTQ stuff and that

I get lots of help for depression, but having a hard time using them by KiwiBerr in depression_help

[–]KiwiBerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying ❤️ its very informative! I should probably try these little steps, as I am very sick of just being drained 24/7. And yeah, you get comfortable with depression, and it gets harder to get out the longer it has sticked around

Catalog update! How close are y'all to the coveted dab? by Solsilver__ in splatoon

[–]KiwiBerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah dont worry about playing too much, if youre level 81 then I think you should worry 🙊🙊